taken Posted May 25, 2004 Posted May 25, 2004 It's been some time now. Her things are gone and she has moved away. From what I hear she is happy with her life and in no way interested in comming back. I figured as much. So now what for me. In the time that has past, my hurt has only grown. It seems worse every day. If time is the cure then when does it start? Each morning I wake up with the same sick feeling in my belly. I just want to crawl under the covers and die. How long will this last? When does the healing begin? I am just so sad all day long. Nothing seems to help. If anyone has any ideas I sure would appreciate hearing them. I'm just dying here. I realize it sounds pathetic, but I truely thought this was the one. I had the ring bought and the wedding date was set. If you read my previous post you know the circumstances of the break. I now realize that the one incident was just the last straw and not the reason. So now it's worse knowing this was in the works for some time. Does anyone have any ideas on how to stop the dwelling. There isn't one second of the day when I'm not thinking about what went wrong and how much I miss her. I know I have to get over it but don't know how. In reality I realize that we couldn't ever get back together because I would always be afraid she woudl leave again. The insecurity would ruin any relationship we might have. But logic doesn't seem to help.
bamaguy20 Posted May 25, 2004 Posted May 25, 2004 off on on which wasn't healthy..the best idea is to first give the girl up, dont call dont speak, none of that.....that will speed the process up...as soon as i got back home from school and we didnt talk much after a big fight...i started feeling better...its been 2 weeks since we've talked....and i can say im starting to feel better...every now and then the sadness will creep in, or ill get lonely or sick to my stomach thinking about her with another guy....but really...time does help...so does praying...im not a religious person by any means...but i dont know, praying and the such, really does seem to help me especially during a time like this...someone once told me....a good guideline for how long you will be feeling awful, and sad is....for every month you were with the person, count that as a week, and then add it up.....by those standards, i have about a month and a half left....the feelings will go away, just look ahead to the future....thats all i can do, im trying to do everything i can to forget about her and it isnt easy, but you know what....its finally starting to work.
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