jnub09 Posted November 22, 2011 Posted November 22, 2011 Well i messed up in my pursuit of this girl. We are in college and we met 7 months ago and It started off good but now it has went downhill. She has the power and everything is on her terms. I know everyone says I should give up but i cant because we are near each other so its hard for my feelings to leave. My friend says I should just ignore her. My plan is to try to get some space and let myself develop and mature until I come back in. What do you guys think I should do in this power struggle?
ChessPieceFace Posted November 22, 2011 Posted November 22, 2011 So you've already been given advice and you've rejected it. Now you're coming here to look for advice which tells you something different. Why should I care about this or think that you will listen to reason. You won't.
Author jnub09 Posted November 22, 2011 Author Posted November 22, 2011 So you've already been given advice and you've rejected it. Now you're coming here to look for advice which tells you something different. Why should I care about this or think that you will listen to reason. You won't. you are right, but I have tried to take their advice and put it in action, but my feelings and want for interaction with her prevent me from doing so.
phineas Posted November 22, 2011 Posted November 22, 2011 you are right, but I have tried to take their advice and put it in action, but my feelings and want for interaction with her prevent me from doing so. And until you distance yourself & learn to control those feelings she will always hold the power. The one who cares the least holds the power. When it comes to women, i'm Odin All-Mighty. They either want to date me or they want to waste my time. And I do not waste my time on women that don't want to date me. So you need to take the advice to ignore this chick. Ignore,ignore,ignore. If, after a week she is still trying to contact you, you pointedly ask her what she wants with you. If it isn't what you want, you tell her what you want & for her to call you when she wants the same thing & not before. Then you go find other women. It's really that simple.
oaks Posted November 22, 2011 Posted November 22, 2011 What do you guys think I should do in this power struggle? Do whatever you need to do to realise (or learn) that dating shouldn't be a power struggle. It shouldn't be about power or be a struggle, either. When you've learned that you'll know that you should've ended this relationship already.
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