sibernox Posted November 21, 2011 Posted November 21, 2011 Last month I went to a house party with my friends, met this girl that has a boyfriend that lives in Europe. We made out that night. Fast forward 3 weeks, with back and forth texting we meet up another night, end up making out and a bit more (no sex) at her place. That night I decide to bring up the boyfriend thing. She tells me they have an agreement, they only see each other like once every 6-7 months, so he knows that she sees other guys. I called her last week and set up a date for tomorrow. Should I bring up the boyfriend thing again or will that make me look insecure? Should a girl like this not be trusted? Am I walking into a dangerous situation? Any advice will be appreciated. Thanks.
phineas Posted November 22, 2011 Posted November 22, 2011 If you like LIKE her then bail now. This will not end well. If you just want to get some then what is the problem? Just wrap it & never mention the "boyfriend" again.
Author sibernox Posted November 22, 2011 Author Posted November 22, 2011 If you like LIKE her then bail now. This will not end well. If you just want to get some then what is the problem? Just wrap it & never mention the "boyfriend" again. that's what I'm thinking too I guess. thanks for the advice
Author sibernox Posted November 22, 2011 Author Posted November 22, 2011 Should I make a move tomorrow? Or should I just be funny and not make a move, that way I make her wonder?
Author sibernox Posted November 24, 2011 Author Posted November 24, 2011 Updating this for anyone who's interested. We met up, went to have a couple of drinks at a bar, then asked her if she wanted to go home, and even though she had woken up at 7 AM that day and it was 10PM by the time we left the bar, she said that she didn't really wana go home yet. So we went for a walk near this lake, talked a bit. Made a move, we made out for a good while. When I dropped her off, it was almost as if she didn't wana get out of the car. At one point she was also like "I don't think I'm being fair with you, what if you want something serious out of this?" and I quickly replied with "Trust me, you have nothing to worry about on my side!". Date was tuesday night, should I call her up Friday (tomorrow) to set something up for next week ? Or should I wait a bit? Thanks.
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