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I have this guy,lets call him C, who I have liked for a long time now but he currently has a gf who is really possesive. We have had classes together for the past 4 years, are in the same sport, and have a lot of common intrests. He has been really extra flirty with me this past half of a year too. now my confussion is because of what happened yesterday.

 

He drove me to a compatition in San Antonio ( we were both in the same event). he picked me up early in the morning,bought me breakfast, we talked,sung,flirted in the car. He also took every opertunity to tell a dirty jock or taunte me. :)

 

At the compatition he stuck to me like glue. I also met my old crush David and we ended up flirting because he got even cuter after he went to college. C got really jelouse and he and David had an introduction/staring contest/verbal exchange sort of fight for territory. David kept hugging because he was happy for winning after I gave him some advice, C got really jealous.

:p

After we finished we went to a buffet; C insisted on paying. We flirted and taked while eating. In the car we continued flirting and talking. It close to midnight so I felt sleepy and put my head on my knees.He put his hand on my leg and then started caressing it, then he held on to my feet making up the excuse that i felt cold( even though it was hot in the car) then C started scartching and caressing my head, neck and back. It felt good so I did not say anything. After a few minutes he stoped for a second and said " Oh! my parents used to do this to me all the time when I was falling asleep" which was followed by an akward scielence. The way he said that was like he sudenly remembered that he needed an excuse and he threw out the first one that came to mind. So he kept caressing my back and shoulders under my shirt while telling me how soft and smooth my back was. He also caressed my arms,stimach, leggs,face and lips. I kept drifting in and out of sleep and I could see him smilling or hear him chuckling every once in a while. when we were about an hour away from my house he started caressing my hipps and thighs. I nudged his hand to tell him that I was awake but, instead of removing his arm like he did the first time, he grabbed and squished my legg from the inner part of my thigh. then he kept on rubbing and caressing my legg and inner thigh until we arrived at my house.

 

He walked me to the door and leaned against the wall with a pose like he wanted something. I suddenly remembered he has a gf, and that I will see him in class, and that I was really turned on, and I got really nervouse. So I said goodbye, smiled, and went in to my house. He went to his car, but hid car did not leave the front of my house for 5 more minutes.

 

I am really confused, I do not know what to think of this or how to act now, or what to do. I am tall,skinny,long blond hair,green eyes, B cup, have good figure, smart( all AP classes), clear skin, multicultural, and am russian( so I have some of the accent which all my guy friends keep telling me is hot).

 

Is it me? is something wrong with me? he is a guy, and don't guys usually get turned on when they touvh girls like that? what should I do?:o

 

He is really cute,smart,nice, and kind and I really really like him. I am really confused about what to do now.:bunny:

 

thank you for any help,really, thank you!

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I am really confused, I do not know what to think of this or how to act now, or what to do. I am tall,skinny,long blond hair,green eyes, B cup, have good figure, smart( all AP classes), clear skin, multicultural, and am russian( so I have some of the accent which all my guy friends keep telling me is hot).

Is it me? is something wrong with me? he is a guy, and don't guys usually get turned on when they touvh girls like that? what should I do?:o

He is really cute,smart,nice, and kind and I really really like him. I am really confused about what to do now.:bunny:

thank you for any help,really, thank you!

 

Hey... He has a GF, so just back off! What's wrong with you? Do you have any morals at all?

 

Sure the guy flirts with you... probably because he thinks you are just slutty enough to cheat with and never tell.

 

Besides if the guy is willing to cheat on his GF like this... He WILL cheat on you even faster. Heck you probably are not even the first. How would you feel if this was YOUR BF and some sleezbag was going after him?

 

Avoid this guy as much as possible.

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Hey... He has a GF, so just back off! What's wrong with you? Do you have any morals at all?

 

Sure the guy flirts with you... probably because he thinks you are just slutty enough to cheat with and never tell.

 

Besides if the guy is willing to cheat on his GF like this... He WILL cheat on you even faster. Heck you probably are not even the first. How would you feel if this was YOUR BF and some sleezbag was going after him?

 

Avoid this guy as much as possible.

 

You see, I understand how this might sound,but I am not a slut.

I have only been kissed once (by an ex when he had to move to Canada). I am also still a v and this was the first time something like that had happened to me.

 

I really like him too,for the longest time we have been crushing on each other. And I am not a bitch,so I do not plan to break them up.

I was just confused if thre is a possibility that he is finally ready to be more then friends, in which case I would wait until he and she break up.

mu question was how should I talk to him about what happened without it being akward?

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could the people who read this leave a comment? I have a lot of views but no comments to help :(

a few short words sould be fine,please.

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C'mon, you sound appealing enough so that you will draw the attention of plenty of guys.

 

You don't need the drama involved in stepping into somebody else's relationship. Besides, if he would cheat WITH you, he would later cheat ON you... and you just have a lot more to offer than to need to sink to that level.

 

Make an attempt to meet more people over the next few weeks, and let your mind drift toward other social possibilities in the process.

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Nikoln, a guy groping you all the way home in the car is a guy whose hoping to get lucky. It's NOT rocket science. Guys his age would screw anything with a heartbeat - they're just one big hormone looking for a place to happen. So don't be too flattered that he was looking at you as yet another chance to get laid. In fact, it's pretty damned insulting. Of course he laid on the charm all day and paid attention to you - he was hoping to get LUCKY before he dropped you off at the end of the night.

 

I'm glad you're a virgin and didn't have sex with him, because I guarantee your post would have been ALOT different if you had.

 

Had you given in to him, you'd be here telling us how he was such a great guy and at the end of the night you had sex with him but he's now acting cold and distant toward you. You feel hurt and used and awkward around him now, and don't understand why he's acting so differently, etc. etc. And that usually happens because once these young guys get what they want, they totally lose interest in you and move onto the next quest.

 

So good on you for NOT engaging sexually with him because the chances are extremely high you'd end up feeling used and humiliated. And DO NOT let him be your 'first.' Shudder.

 

Just try to live by the Golden Rule - don't do anything to anyone that YOU wouldn't like done to you. This means don't mess around with guys that are committed to others because YOU wouldn't like it if a woman were to mess around with the guy you love.

 

How to treat this? You can still be nice and joke around in class, but I would NOT take him up on any other 'get togethers' after class or on the weekends.

Thank you very much,I guess you are right and that I should have seen that coming. I just thought that he was a good guy sence we have known each other for a long time but I have started to rethink that statment since that day; I just needed to hear someone say that to me to realize it I guess.:p

 

Thanks for the advice :)

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