Romantic_Lefty Posted November 21, 2011 Posted November 21, 2011 Hey so i had the girl of my dreams. For two years i had her. And then she broke up with me. I didn't know what to do other than i wanted her back. So after a lot of looking, i found this wonderful site. I got some great advice and managed to get her back. Other than she wanted to keep it a secret from friends so her mom didn't find out. I got her back at the start of the school year (i'm 21 she 19 soon to be 20). She came to me, crying, saying that she messed up and would like me back. So i took her back. And was happier than ever. Things were going great other than the occasional stress of having to lie to a lot of people and not seeing each other in conventional ways for two people dating. But it was small potatoes compared to having her back in my life! But then, after about two months, she just, got distant for a couple days. And then ignored me mostly for a day. Then...well, she stopped by and asked me to meet her in her car, where she broke up with me...again. I don't know what to do or what to feel anymore. Does anyone have any advice!?
wow123 Posted November 21, 2011 Posted November 21, 2011 Hey so i had the girl of my dreams. For two years i had her. And then she broke up with me. I didn't know what to do other than i wanted her back. So after a lot of looking, i found this wonderful site. I got some great advice and managed to get her back. Other than she wanted to keep it a secret from friends so her mom didn't find out. I got her back at the start of the school year (i'm 21 she 19 soon to be 20). She came to me, crying, saying that she messed up and would like me back. So i took her back. And was happier than ever. Things were going great other than the occasional stress of having to lie to a lot of people and not seeing each other in conventional ways for two people dating. But it was small potatoes compared to having her back in my life! But then, after about two months, she just, got distant for a couple days. And then ignored me mostly for a day. Then...well, she stopped by and asked me to meet her in her car, where she broke up with me...again. I don't know what to do or what to feel anymore. Does anyone have any advice!? I went through a similar situation a few years ago when I joined this site. The only thing worse than being dumped by the person you love is getting them back only to have them do it again. That feeling when you get them back is amazing. When it happens the second time it's worse than the first. My ex also kept me a secret just like yours. I don't want to upset you, but her reason was because she was also seeing someone else. She didn't want others to think badly of her. The advice I will give you is the same that everyone gave to me. Do not communicate with her, look at her FB page, twitter etc. Try to stay as busy as possible doing other things. It's the hardest thing to do but we all have to do it.
Author Romantic_Lefty Posted November 21, 2011 Author Posted November 21, 2011 Thanks...although i don't think this girl would be one to see someone else. At least from what i know anyways.
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