andrewsam20 Posted November 21, 2011 Posted November 21, 2011 i fought with my friends 9 months back.. we were not in a relationship but we were just confused. we had a fight and i was angry i sent her a message which was way beyond my line. i tot i'll ask her sorry and next day but didnt happen.. i asked her sorry after 6 months, but she was adamant ( but she was responding to my message and no rude answers) .. Its her b'day next week.. is it a good idea to wish her ? will she be able to forgive me? i miss her badly. I know words once said cant be taken back.. but there was enough faults from her side too,,
kat27 Posted November 21, 2011 Posted November 21, 2011 It sounds from your post that a little time has passed since you last spoke. If that's the case I would send her a quick text saying happy birthday. Sometimes after a big falling out like that it takes me some time to process things and I might not respond favorably to someone shortly after, but probably would later. It would be thoughtful to tell her happy birthday, and you are probably more likely to regret it if you don't do it, than to regret it if you do.
Author andrewsam20 Posted November 22, 2011 Author Posted November 22, 2011 may be a last try.. i dont think she will be the same if we get back together. She has moved on
Trovador Posted November 22, 2011 Posted November 22, 2011 With due respect, do not be naive, a birthday wish will not bring her back to your arms... Actually, silence from your part might awake some interest from her, but I doubt it... you should take it as if she doesn't give a damn about you because probably that is the truth, painful as it might be... Do not send anything... it will do nothing for her and it will hurt you when she will ignore it...
Author andrewsam20 Posted November 26, 2011 Author Posted November 26, 2011 Her B'day is tomorrow and I'm confused
twinkles Posted November 26, 2011 Posted November 26, 2011 Don't do anything Andrew. It will not change anything you will only get hurt. No Birthday card.. no facebook..no call nothing. Hold strong you won't be sorry. Call a buddy and go out.
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