DH4 Posted November 21, 2011 Posted November 21, 2011 I met him freshman year of college in our math class. We're both now juniors and the best of friends. When we decided to live together sure we were friends, but now that we've been living together we are the best of friends. We're always together and do everything together. He's the best friend a person could have and we have a lot of fun together. He's single and hasn't been in a relationship in over a year. We eat together in between our break after classes and we even decided to take a class together. All of our interests are the same and it's scary how alike we are. He loves the piano and classical music; he's a big disney fan, and loves cats. He's smart, good looking and really funny. I feel like we're meant to be together. We sometimes joke about how we act like a married couple except for the fact that we don't have sex. A lot of people always comment on how cute a couple we are but we laugh it off and say we're not a couple. He's everything I've always wanted in a guy and more. We know almost everything about each other and aren't afraid to share our feelings. I feel like recently it's getting harder on me living with him because of the way I feel. We've already planned on living together for another year but I don't know if I can. I can't tell him how I feel because I don't want our friendship to change. I have thought about getting out of this situation but I couldn't picture my life without him. I don't think he feels the same way about me as I do about him. I'm confused, very confused. What do you guys think? I really hope that one of you can help.
norajane Posted November 21, 2011 Posted November 21, 2011 You are in love with him, but you won't tell him how you feel? Then you need to stop living with him. That will cause you nothing but heartbreak. Especially if he starts dating someone else. And brings her to your apartment. Also, you are missing out on meeting people that you can date since you are so wrapped up in him. I'd suggest telling him how you feel. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. Next time you joke about how you act like a married couple without the sex, ask him if he'd like to add the sex and start a dating relationship (absolutely NOT friends with benefits - that will lead to a huge disaster).
Feelin Frisky Posted November 21, 2011 Posted November 21, 2011 Do how they do in the movies: pick a moment when your faces are close and don't look away. The music always starts playing and boom, love.
SincereOnlineGuy Posted November 21, 2011 Posted November 21, 2011 I think you are nuts! (in the most pleasant, harmless way) HOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOW can this guy NOT be totally into you!!! (as I just now wrote in response to another post) GUYS simply do not do the 'friendship' thing with women they wouldn't rather be banging. If I were you, I'd go out to the kitchen for a midnight snack in your laciest, most revealing undergarments, and make sure to make enough noise to bring him out to see what's going on... Then show him what's going on ... !!
Ilovewater Posted November 22, 2011 Posted November 22, 2011 Tell him how you feel! The dynamic of your friendship is going to change anyways because your emotions already have such a big effect on you. He also might be into you considering but is too afraid to make the first move. If you can't tell him, then I'd suggest moving out. Otherwise, the situation would be too painful to handle.
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