funnyface Posted November 21, 2011 Posted November 21, 2011 He one of the directors of my younger brother's band at his college. My brother sent me some recordings and I saw this guy's picture and read up on him.. he is really successful, talented, just finished grad school, and CUUUUUTE! But, I've never actually met him before, and he doesn't even know I exist. I really, really want to meet him so badly.. I MIGHT meet him when I go visit my brother and watch his band play in the next few weeks. But, on the chance that I do get to meet him... how the heck can I get his attention? Or get him to talk to me? Without seeming like a psycho? Advice, please.. I think this guy is just dreamy, and I don't get crushes very easily! Plus, I've just gone through a very tough breakup a few months ago, so for me to feel like this is really something!
jobaba Posted November 21, 2011 Posted November 21, 2011 He one of the directors of my younger brother's band at his college. My brother sent me some recordings and I saw this guy's picture and read up on him.. he is really successful, talented, just finished grad school, and CUUUUUTE! But, I've never actually met him before, and he doesn't even know I exist. I really, really want to meet him so badly.. I MIGHT meet him when I go visit my brother and watch his band play in the next few weeks. But, on the chance that I do get to meet him... how the heck can I get his attention? Or get him to talk to me? Without seeming like a psycho? Advice, please.. I think this guy is just dreamy, and I don't get crushes very easily! Plus, I've just gone through a very tough breakup a few months ago, so for me to feel like this is really something! Ehhh. If some kind of emotion like that were to start to come over me, I'd grab it and choke it dead before it could even rear its ugly head in public. And I've pretty much been able to do that since the kind of crushes I've had similar to yours in my teens and early 20s were all pretty much based purely on looks and all ended in rejection. And yours pretty much is too. But then again, I have no idea what you look like. He might have a crush on you too if/when you meet. Can we see the picture of him?!
mammamia1 Posted November 21, 2011 Posted November 21, 2011 I'd grab it and choke it dead before it could even rear its ugly head in public. And I've pretty much been able to do that since the kind of crushes I've had similar to yours in my teens and early 20s were all pretty much based purely on looks and all ended in rejection.Agreed and same here, all ended in rejection, though I'm still an attractive young girl
WhiteChocolate Posted November 21, 2011 Posted November 21, 2011 For all you know, this guy could be a cheater, a liar, a womanizer, and a jerk. Anyways. You seem like a fangirl. I can't really sympathize with your feelings. Hate to burst your bubble, but my best advice is to just go in and talk to him like any other guy, albeit one whom you find attractive. Please don't tell all you know about him though, having "read up" yada yada. That's just a bit creepy. Maybe just put yourself by him when he's not busy, and walk up and say "Hi, I'm funnyface, what's ur name?" And when he says his name, say, "Oh! Do you know my brother? He's told me a bit about you! Thank you for all you have done for him." And just let the convo progress naturally.
Author funnyface Posted December 5, 2011 Author Posted December 5, 2011 I went to my brother's concert but we did not meet ... didnt stick around long enough. There were maybe only 50 people there and also I'm sure that he noticed me because I said hello to my brother right in front of him.. also kind of think we met eyes when I was scanning the room but I could be mistaken (yes, I know I sound like a crazy person). But oh gosh, watching him perform just intensifies the crush PS - I know I totally feel like a teenager again and I probably sound like one, but I COMPLETELY understand the reality here that he might be a total jerk. I just want to give it a shot Little bro knows I have an interest and wants to set me up, though I don't know how successful that will be. The question then becomes - is it way too creepy if I add him on Facebook? (I personally believe that the guy should pursue the girl, but adding on Facebook seems to be such a weird grey area...)
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