Ladies, when you make a mistke, why is it hard for you to admit it. EVen to yourselve

[phineas]

I do believe YOU are rationalizing.

 

I come from a scientific background. I am extremely linear in my thinking when I want to be, but I can also think contextually, as in a more web-oriented way of thinking.

 

I find most men would like to put me in a box, but I move easily between both ways of thinking, and I am a sexy girl. Confusing for a lot of men. We women are multi-faceted.

 

I don't much appreciate your line of thinking, but I understand how you got there.

 

But, didn't you say earlier you CAN admit when you are wrong to a man?

You do not fit the norm. (not that you arn't normal)

You are the exception dasein speaks of.

 

Well, to be honest you would not be considered a an exception where I work. In a corporation / financial institution.

 

Lot's & lot's & lot's of straight-forward women working on spreadsheets, databases, handling large sums of money in corproate accounts.

 

It's heaven really.

 

Except for the few with men that asked me out then kissed me on the lips then tried to rationalize nothing romantic was going on when I found out they had a boyfriend or were dating someone else.

[Ilovewater]

I stick with my contention that women generally don't like modes of thinking such as the scientific method, math and analytical philosophy because such fields are conducted via rigid, objective rulesets that don't allow for manipulation of "reality" with language in the way the social sciences seem to.

 

Disagree. My friend is a PhD candidate at Cornell for engineering, and almost half of the department is women. In most medical schools around the country, more than half of the class is women. Have you ever been to a real science conference? I've been to at least ten, and I can tell you, there are tons of women there. Maybe you haven't been exposed enough to the scientific world to see that.

Edited November 21, 2011 by Ilovewater

[blueskyday]

Logical women don't rationalize ethics.

[blueskyday]

And ethical women don't rationalize unethical actions with logical language.

[phineas]

Logical women don't rationalize ethics.

 

And ethical women don't rationalize unethical actions with logical language.

 

I think you broke my brain.

[blueskyday]

:laugh: laughing here!

[Wolf18]

In my 22 years of life, no female that isn't related to me has ever said sorry to me. Ever. And I've been wronged by women a few times, the Madam Chaucer's of the world would explain this by saying that women can do no wrong, it must be my attitude that sparks this type of sociopathic behavior in women.

[ShannonMI]

In my 22 years of life, no female that isn't related to me has ever said sorry to me. Ever. And I've been wronged by women a few times, the Madam Chaucer's of the world would explain this by saying that women can do no wrong, it must be my attitude that sparks this type of sociopathic behavior in women.

My dear Wolfie....I'm sorry. I truly am. Will you forgive me?

 

Does that make you feel better?

[PlumPrincess]

Hey, nobodies perfect. Men mess up, leadies mess, whateva. But it does seem like the ladies have a harder time admitting that they messed up. Whatever it may be. Is this an esteem thing or do ladies just feel they don't need to do better and it's all on the man to change? Not saying in the same relationship. but just growing as a person and moving on to men in the future. Yet they keep making the same mistakes. This goes from person to person so please share.

I never make mistakes, therefore I never had to admit anything.

[Woggle]

In my 22 years of life, no female that isn't related to me has ever said sorry to me. Ever. And I've been wronged by women a few times, the Madam Chaucer's of the world would explain this by saying that women can do no wrong, it must be my attitude that sparks this type of sociopathic behavior in women.

 

One did for me. One of my ex's friends who encouraged her to cheat ran into me and apologized with genuine remorse and with no blame shifting whatsoever. She had been to rehab and was a completely different person.

 

I forgave her because she was woman enough to look my in the eyes and apologize with no strings attached.

 

I have never received an apology from any other woman that wronged me though. My mother still swears she is a victim and everybody else is wrong.

[dasein]

Disagree. My friend is a PhD candidate at Cornell for engineering, and almost half of the department is women.

 

Yeah, rampant affirmative action in the Ivies is indicative of what exactly?

[dasein]

I have never received an apology from any other woman that wronged me though.

 

and you got that one as part of her 12 step program.

[Woggle]

and you got that one as part of her 12 step program.

 

I have good instincts and I can tell she was sincere. Everything about her was different from what she used to be. She also went on her own accord and wasn't forced by the courts.

[OnyxSnowfall]

Wolfie, have you apologized to any of the females you've used and treated like ****? You know, when you were apparently all chiseled and younger and wreaking havoc on the streets, heh.

[ShannonMI]

Don't you have to clean some Dog **** from your Bed, you ugly bitch? Don't you have anything better to do than be sarcastic on random forums about love and respect with understanding....which you clearly lack! Just like you lack in good looks.

 

You are like a spare tire with holes and dirty edges that is there in case my good, proper girl is dead or broken.

 

Ugly bitches like you, who are shallow and drool over big muscles of a wolfie there, like losers over big tits..make me and other men here wanna go

Ahhh still trolling? It's like you follow me around to ever thread I go to. You see my name and you have to post something to me about how ugly I am and about dog sh*t. Same old, same old.

 

I know that's not Wolfie in that picture. I have seen him without a shirt. While he is adorable and sexy, he does not look like that. Some of us LS'ers go beyond LS and talk outside of here. I know that is not something you would understand because you are too busy trolling to actually get to know people. Some of us become friendly with each other and even develop relationships. I don't think you will ever get to that point because you are a f*cking loser in every sense of the word. Like what normal, "cool" person makes up dozens of user names to harass people with? You are a micro dicked, bald, fat LOSER!!! I feel sorry for you. And stop chasing me around LS. You're like a f*cking stalker. It's starting to creep me out.

[dasein]

I moderate a political forum & I see more men do it than women & see women call out men on their fabricated attacks towards other members & politcians.

 

That's interesting, would like to hear more detail on that if you care to share. So on your political forum, men actually toss directed potshots at women like women do to men here? Are these back and forth party politics things? or gender related?

[dasein]

Sounds like somebody has a crush on Shannon.

[ShannonMI]

When I see dirty ass shi*t on an any page here, i will call it and try to clean i up with my vast wit and awesome tactics of shear bliss and understanding.

 

You pollute my posts like no other, you and your gay boyfriend oaks.

 

Don't you have to plan your yet another single Week? Oh...sucking your dogs red dick again?....if it makes you happy!

Yes you single me and Oaks out. Why I don't know. Because you are a creepy f*cking stalker and you have nothing better to do is my guess. And your obsession with my dogs dick and his feces is a bit creepy too. Do you have a dog? I bet you smear peanut butter on your balls and make him lick it off. Animal cruelty for sure, but you have to get action when you can, I know. Sad pathetic loser that you are.

[ShannonMI]

Sounds like somebody has a crush on Shannon.

Yes I'm beginning to think so. He literally follows me around and posts picking out my quotes. Creepy bastard. Calling me ugly and talking about my dog's penis and his @sshole. It's really odd.

[samsungxoxo]

Even during early childhood saying the dreadful word ''I'm sorry'' was something difficult. People keep saying apologizing is simple and makes you a stronger person but IMO it feels like bending backwards and throwing a heavy luggage on yourself.

[Wolf18]

My dear Wolfie....I'm sorry. I truly am. Will you forgive me?

 

Does that make you feel better?

 

 

I accept your apology for womankind, but I think after all this time I'm going to need reperations as well

 

Wolfie, have you apologized to any of the females you've used and treated like ****? You know, when you were apparently all chiseled and younger and wreaking havoc on the streets, heh. [/Quote]

 

 

Actually, while I used to be very bitter towards women, I still felt a little guilty when something I said or did would make a girl cry and would apologize for that. Well, that is until I had a girl tell me "don't apologize to me, it's sooo unattractive" . Add in the fact that women don't apologize to me, and I don't do it anymore.

 

I don't consider myself to be submissive what so ever, but women, controlled and willful submission is kindness, not weakness.

[Ilovewater]

Yeah, rampant affirmative action in the Ivies is indicative of what exactly?

 

Why wouldn't the Ivies count? Women in the Ivies are still women. It doesn't matter where it's an Ivy League school or not. A bunch of my friends who are women are PhD candidates in different science fields at state universities. They didn't get accepted into the schools by magic. They actually have the numbers and experiences to back up their success.

 

And, you think affirmative action is what get these women in the fields that they are in? It's highly insulting since they are all intelligent and worked hard to get to where they are. Don't diminish their achievements by blaming it on affirmative action.

[samsungxoxo]

Years later, I still stutter if I were to apologize. My apology speech would be something like this: ''I wanted to say, umm, umm, I, I, sorry''.

[ShannonMI]

No one here can argue the fact that your are ugly...everyone can see it and no one telling me I am wrong...So suck it and swallow it bitch!

 

You just got owned! Raped and made have children!

I know, I know I'm ugly. You tell me every day. And everyone agrees:p

Now go stalk some other female on here please. Leave me alone troll.

[Wolf18]

Why wouldn't the Ivies count? Women in the Ivies are still women. It doesn't matter where it's an Ivy League school or not. A bunch of my friends who are women are PhD candidates in different science fields at state universities. They didn't get accepted into the schools by magic. They actually have the numbers and experiences to back up their success.

 

And, you think affirmative action is what get these women in the fields that they are in? It's highly insulting since they are all intelligent and worked hard to get to where they are. Don't diminish their achievements by blaming it on affirmative action.

 

 

I can't speak for other fields, but a very big chunk of women in IT and Engineering are indeed the product of affirmative action. I tried to study Engineering but lost interest , probably more than half the women I spoke to in my classes were there on full "Women's" scholarships with cushy jobs virtually guaranteed at the end of their studies.

 

I suspect other male-dominated fields like the hard sciences, medicine, etc would yield similar results. Scholarships should be based on your ability as well as your economic position, there's no reason why an upper middle class woman should get an engineering scholarship when some dirt poor farm kid in West Virginia who may have a natural talent for it will never be able to go to school because he's no eligible.