I'm going crazy over a guy I work with.

[Imp]

I really need another person's opinion on what I should do, I dont want to talk to somone I know, like a friend if that makes sence so I came here.

 

Basically, I've fallen really badly for someone I work with. I work at a game shop.

 

It started months ago, before I got my job at this place, I used to go there all the time, for games. This guy would be in most days i went in and I'd always admire him, thinking he was hot/cute and very polite. I always saw him on my bus, and around the village I live in... I always notced him, but he never noticed me.

 

Turns out mid october I get an xmas temp job in the store. He works the same shifts as me, I become really good friends with him, within a week he gave me his number. I can't stop texting him.

 

One girl I work with keeps telling me things that get my hopes up. ie. someone asked if me and 'him' were going out, girl replies with "he wishes! when you left after he gave you his number he was like should i have done that so quick?"

 

I invited him to my birthday party which was yesturday, we all got very drunk and I got mixed things from him again. He bought a rose from someone in London, was joking about giving it to someone for a kiss... we all came back to my house, he left it here. I told him today he left it here, he replied with, 'you noticed I left the rose,nevermind.' I'm really confused as to what he means by that text? Then on facebook i see him talkng to someone else about the rose ' oh i accidentaily left it Imp's house so no i didnt give it to anyone'. And I'm now invited to his birthday party in about 4 weeks time.

 

I'm really attracted to him, I have been for a long time, however I've only known him as a person from mid october... and I think hes a wonderrful person. I'm going crazy over him, I can't leave my phone alone, I'm constantly waiting for a text from him. It's driving me insane!! I think about him when I'm at college, in classes and out of them, when I'm home, when I'm at work... hes constantly on my mind. I dont get as much coursewrok done anymore due to me thinking about him!!I get jealous of other girls even talking to him, I'm thinking they're hitting on him, I'm getting impossiby jealous to the point of being angry.

 

I'm getting to the point where I'm in tears as I dont know what to do! I dont want to loose him as a friend, and I'm just so confused as to what to think about what he says and does. I really dont know how he feels about me, and i dont wanna rush... i just i dont know!

 

What I'm feeling now really hurts, and I've never felt anything like this for anyone before, not even my last boyfriend of 2 years. I feel more 'love' for this guy.

 

Please help me, I'm going crazy

 

Imp

[denise_xo]

This post is totally cute.

 

Just go ahead and flirt with him. That rose was a good opportunity to do so. Grab the next opportunity and go with the flow and see what happens. Good luck

[Imp]

Thankyou, its nice to hear another opinion, rather than just people I actullay know, I'll give it a try next time an oppertunity occurs.

[SincereOnlineGuy]

Yes, this post is 'cute':

 

 

AND it comes with the relatively comforting part about yours being a Christmas "temp" job, so you are more free to roll the dice romantically than are most people with romance at work.

 

Today is Nov. 20/21

 

Why don't you tell yourself that you WILL be TOTALLY CLEAR of your romantic interest by the time Christmas Day rolls around?

 

Just make that your goal, and then on those bus rides, from time to time, begin to envision the setting and a plan about just how you are going to make yourself CLEAR in that way.

 

And you need to be CLEAR if you hope to entice him into a romantic setting with you. Whatever ya do, DON'T get yourself all wound-up, only to send a signal that is vague.

 

Time is on your side... so try to "slow your roll" for the rest of November and just start envisioning yourself communicating clearly by Christmas.