eoskidinnj Posted November 20, 2011 Posted November 20, 2011 Okay... so i've been friends with this girl Elizabeth since mid May of 2011, and she's always been weird. Me and her were friends in like 2nd grade but we stopped, and now we're both in 8th. As i remember it, i think she got all mad cuz i kicked her on accident while we were on the monkey bars in like 2nd or 3rd grade. she's always overreactant like that. so this 8th grade year, it was the back-to-school dance, and me and her were hanging out a 7th grader, whos her friend more than mine, ally. i am FAR more social than her, cuz im basically her only friend... anyway so i was talking to a couple 7th grade friends of mine, and a 6th grade friend of mine, and she got all mad cuz i kept talking to them when they passed by. she said that i was ignoring her and i was like 'what, im not allowed to socialize?' i am always next to her, and she was getting really mad for no reason because i was talking to other people. then the new girl, rosa was alone, so i went to say hi. elizabeth got mad cuz she thought i was ignoring her AGAIN, even though i was next to her 95% of the entire dance. a few days later, on the following tuesday, the new girl, rosa, was confused with where to go for class. i pointed out the room and how to get there, and elizabeth got ticked off cuz she had gym and so did i so she wanted to walk there with me so next period she was all mad and i asked her what's wrong, and she said 'why dont you ask rosa why im mad??' i put up with all her **** and pissy moods, only becuase i don't really have alot of friendds in the 8th grade... they all have other friends and elizabeth is the only one that doesnt have anyone else... we sit with eachother at lunch..... so the next dance she and ally bought m&m's in a little plastic bottle, with a pop up top. they completely ignored me and popped them in peoples faces and i just followed them around to not look stupid.... about 2 weeks ago, me and elizabeth got paired up for a project, so we did it, and had a lot of fun. i admit i have fun with her sometimes but she can be a real bitch sometimes. she'll come to school in a pissy mood for no reason, and treat me like ****, and she says I treat her like crap, when i honestly dont. last week, we had art together, and ana, another 8th grader, was talking with me cuz she was 'lonely' elizabeth says i was ignoring her when i wasn't even trying to. when i tried talking with her, she got all pissed and is now ignoring me. she says that i am always mean to her when i put up with all her **** and crappy moods. she is alot like me, with allergies, because we have similar allergies, but her personality is honestly not like mine much. she ;ikes to draw, but not the stuff i like to draw. i like to draw realistic objects, she like people.... i love music, and play the guitar, and she just likes to listen to it. i hate alot of the music she likes, and she hates it when i practice my guitar when she's talking to me online and i have to leave. she plays gymnastics and i hate all that stuff. she is DEATHLY paronoid and scared of the stupidest stuff, including the bunsen burner at school, thunder storms, and the dark. shes 13 years old, and the one time we have a sleepover, she's up to 1 am, and she sleeps with the frickin light on. she stays up to 11 or 12 every night, and i usually by choice go to bed at 9. im more of a night person, but i have a sleep problem, so im always tired, and usually am direly tired by 11 or 12, and i like to sleep til 9 or 10. anyway, she's obsessed with a bunch of stuff i don't like that much, and i don't think we have a lot in common. so tonight, we had a facebook conversation that probably ended our friendship: hey are you okay? you haven't been talking to me im rlly sry i didn't go to the dance... i promised my cousin like a while ago tht id go out with her to celebrate her bday.. thats not why im mad.\ are you mad at me...? is it because of what happened in art and science the other day.........? maybe if you take time to think about others and not only yourself youd understand. If being friends with you means being treated like crap then id rather not be your friend at all what? look im sorry about that i tried to get anna to leave she rlly wouldntttt but if thats the way you feel fine I was the one to help you with everything. I was the one to forgive you about everything. and ou havent done that only once uve done it 6 other times and i never said anything to save our friendshp but now im tired of it sorry isnt enoufgh anymore. name one time that i ever yelled at you or just lost my cool and flat out ignored you in art i was just talking to someone else you're being over controlative over me what im not allowed to socailize with other people? i cant focuse all of myself toward you And i already told ally of this and she doesent blame me you had me crying at the dance and she swore she felt like crying with me thanks alot. i wish i went in school a year laterso i didnt have to deal with this i could be wita friend who actually cares... .... i didn't mean for you to cry.... im sorry but.... you'vve had me crying before too look again you allways try to put the focus on you and make everyone feel bad for you. II dont want you to feel bad for me i want you to stop treating me like your little play toy. whenever someone talks to me you put it asway and take it back out when u need someone there i mean im sorry... and mine wasn't at a dance.... but... what? sno i dont name one time i did that i honestly don't try to do that... name one time i did i dont need to you you and i both know u can name atleast 10 and i can name about 20 good bye alyssa i honestly can't name one, elizabeth. and if you can name so many that do it name them i gave you time to talk and your done now bye you can't name one. and so i tried to send her another message, and she disabled my permission to chat her. i didn't even know you could DO that on facebook. so now im rlly pissed at her and i don't know what to do. i really don't have anyone to turn to, and everyone really needs someone. she's the only one who sits with me at lunch. i don't have that many 8th grade friends, except for a few people, but they sit at another table, thats completely full. i know i'll make new friends in high school, but thats still in the future. its only november, and i need someone until the end of 8th grade. please. i need help.
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