delish Posted November 20, 2011 Posted November 20, 2011 (edited) i was dating a guy and we hit it off but soon he became distant. and when i reach out to him- not an answer- 2 weeks later he pops up explaining to me that he shutdown cuz his mom died but didnt explain his behavior prior that. what should a girl do? we were suppose to meet this weekend, but not a word from him. should i reach out to him or not? i feel like he will think please dont bother me or that he is using this as an excuse to keep me arms apart. Edited November 20, 2011 by delish
9Lives Posted November 21, 2011 Posted November 21, 2011 I hope you are dating other people as well. This is not a good start. If his mom died recently, he is not going to be in the best of spirits for a while rightful so. I would just text him and say Im here for you if you need me and leave it at that.
Lonely Ronin Posted November 21, 2011 Posted November 21, 2011 I'd recommend you end it. I realize his mother died, but it says something about his personality, if he couldn't take a few minutes to text, call, or email you. IMO If you like/care about someone, keeping them in the loop is important, it's a form of respect. i was dating a guy and we hit it off but soon he became distant. and when i reach out to him- not an answer- 2 weeks later he pops up explaining to me that he shutdown cuz his mom died but didnt explain his behavior prior that. what should a girl do?
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