majomparade Posted November 20, 2011 Posted November 20, 2011 Okay, so I asked her out (I didn't say date, just to do something) but she was busy, she then immediately suggested another time. Yay! Time comes but she needs to cancel w/ short notice... Boo! I saw her again later we talked for a few mins, and I suggested [popular coffee house,] but she said she was a little sick and wanted to just go home. Now, knowing all that, how many more times should I suggest doing something before I cross the creepy line? It's been suggested to me that until I get a hard 'no/not interested' I keep asking. But I don't want to be the creepy guy that can't take a hint. And do I just straight ask her for a "date"? Or suggest another activity?
cerridwen Posted November 20, 2011 Posted November 20, 2011 (edited) I would suggest asking zero more times. Canceling with short notice followed by declining to spend any time together communicates a ton. Sorry. Edited November 20, 2011 by cerridwen
Soxfaninfl Posted November 20, 2011 Posted November 20, 2011 Your wasting your time with this one. I would move on. If she really wanted to do something with you, she would have suggested another day and time.
jstobo Posted November 20, 2011 Posted November 20, 2011 Do not ask her out again. Don't even contact her again. Let her come to you for a little while. If she doesn't, then you know you are doing the right thing by doing nothing. Never make someone a priority who only sees you as an option.
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