Freddys Posted November 20, 2011 Posted November 20, 2011 I met (again) a girl many years after, since we were together in university. We had some dates together, she was just out from a relationship that did hurt her a lot. Her ex dumped her because of her health issue. I have feelings for her, i did confess them to her, so she knows my true intentions and that she will not be hurt again. At the very first she said wasn't ready enough, she had nothing to give into a new relationship. But one way or another, we are in contact the last 6 months. She likes me but as i can see isn't ready yet. (Not because of her ex, but she wants to know me better and trust me more). Her behavior to me isn't the most appropriate (health issue is involved), although my true feelings made me stick around for her. But i'm afraid she needs someone to be "loved" as a sub. But on the other hand, i can see some feelings and willings from her side to eventually love me as well. I really can't make clear to myself how long she will need to recover fully or to trust me 100%. She is a person that hardly speaks the truth and prefers actions. Sometimes she looks insecure, that i might be like her ex's and i dump her because of her health. Is very hard for her to believe there is someone that cares for her no matter what her situation may be. She is willing to make herself ready . . What your opinion might be for this girl. I like her & i have feelings too, she knows that. The possibility to be a girl that only wants to "be loved" (for now) does not sound science fiction to me, but again would be really strange this is the truth and just that. Perhaps she needs some more time . . . Thanks for your time to read this, any answer of yours is welcome : )
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