majomparade Posted November 20, 2011 Posted November 20, 2011 I've just joined this forum with the hope I can get some advice off you guys and girls. I'm a single guy who's just turned 40 and I'm having real probs finding the right dating site to suit my needs. I don't have kids, I don't want any and I want to meet a girl who doesn't have or want any either. I've been on various dating sites over the last year, but trying to find a potential partner has proved impossible. I can't help but get the feeling that I'm looked at as some kind of weirdo just because I don't do the kids thing! I'm just a normal guy looking for a loving relationship with a girl who's right for me. There MUST be other people out there in my position, I just need to know where to look. I welcome any advice any of you might have. Cheers!
FitChick Posted November 20, 2011 Posted November 20, 2011 (edited) It's never been more acceptable to remain childfree. Just be very clear in your profile. Avoid the ones, no matter how attractive, who say, "You'll change your mind when you have your own" because they are more likely to not use birth control to convince you you'd be happier as a father. At your age, you should have a vasectomy anyway. Why don't you date women your age or even a bit older? Plenty of hot older women out there these days. Edited November 20, 2011 by FitChick
Breezy17 Posted November 20, 2011 Posted November 20, 2011 Can't you search on those sites for people without kids? And do not want any?And I was thinking date older.... Usually they're not know for being gung-ho to have [more] kids..
oaks Posted November 21, 2011 Posted November 21, 2011 I've just joined this forum with the hope I can get some advice off you guys and girls. I'm a single guy who's just turned 40 and I'm having real probs finding the right dating site to suit my needs. 3 weeks ago you were just 18. Make your mind up.
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