chados Posted November 20, 2011 Posted November 20, 2011 i've had NC and she has initiated contact a few times. she's been really curious about me, asked me about everything. well i did call her yesterday, she was at work and didnt pick up the phone. she texted me later asking about the call, and i said well you have 2 minutes?, normally she would say , yes i have 2 minutes, and i would call her up. but instead she instantly called me. sounded happy and agreed to a meetup later on. is this a good sign? would she sound happy when i called if she didn't have any feelings? and would she agree to a meetup after 1 month if she didn't? could this just be a sign for, i just want to be nice to you, and i dont want you to hate me? i've never experienced this before, normally the girl would sound uncomfortable to talk with me, and wouldn't want to meet up. they would say stuff like, i dont think thats a good idea.
smokey bear Posted November 20, 2011 Posted November 20, 2011 Whats the background to your breakup, just a brief summary
Author chados Posted November 20, 2011 Author Posted November 20, 2011 Whats the background to your breakup, just a brief summary i thought she was tired of me, so i started to be insecure, she thought i didn't cared about her anymore, so she started to pull back instead of saying what the problem was, in the end both of us were insecure i guess. and when she told me. everything was good, we spend the weekend together. she went back to school for 1,5 week and told me, i'm gonna be a little reserved just so you know, "give me a little bit space" and of course i was chasing her because i was afraid of loosing her, she was probably thinking, he's just doing this because i told him that i felt unappreciated. she loved me, and she still does i think. she's just scared that i wont change. but its not really a big thing to change. i just have to be a man and step up. show her what she means to me. i think the biggest problem was that when she told me everything, i started to change everything the same day, thats not a good strategy
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