luffy88 Posted November 20, 2011 Posted November 20, 2011 We have been together for 5 months. she broke up with me because she couldn't love me. the reason that she was with her ex boyfriends for two years and he cheated on her many times, so it is hard for her to trust again. she told me we need one month to be away from each other to decide and think but I bothered her I called her a lot and I showed up in her place because I miss her. I love her so much. later I got another reason why she broke up with me. it was that I stopped her from another people and hide her from friends. I got this from friend who betrayed me and tried to destroy my relationship with her and she believed him. and also she thinks that my other friends hate her. I KEPT bothering and bothering because I wanted to explain to her. I waited until her birthday to surprise her but before it I told her I am going home so she started to cry. she told me i don't have more feeling but I still want you to come to my birthday. I did surprise her and it was good but I bothered her again by coming back to me. she said she can't because she can't love anymore. I went home for real this time. when I came back she was still angry at me because of the bothering . we have been making problem for 4 months until last week when I, her my friend and his girlfriend met together to finish everything. 1. she said I bother her a lot and forced her and she can't give more that friendship right now. I SAID I missed you 2. my friend told her we don't hate you. 3. she thought I hid her my friends but the truth was that I was shy kissing her in front of my friends because I am not good kisser 4.when she told me I don't want to see you because I want to meet another guy she didn't mean it because she was nervous and angry I saw later in her eyes that she felt bad and I don't want this. 5 days later, she invited me to her place for dinner with her family. she was nice asking me what do I think of her new style hair. she showed me her photos in her childhood and she was interested. and now I am confused because I want her back. I needed to explain everything. please help me with your advices
Suki Lim Posted November 21, 2011 Posted November 21, 2011 Hi luffy, I just read a blog post which is regarding your issue yesterday. In the blog post, actually it stated that we should understand each other needs but not only emphasize on your own needs. I suggest that you should be her 'close friend' and understand her better so that you could straightforward to hit the hot button when you're ready and she's ready for it ... P/S: I saw some tips to know about getting your ex back in the blog. Let me know if you want it so I can post it for you ))
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