Author starla33 Posted November 21, 2011 Author Posted November 21, 2011 You hit the nail on the head with your insight, I see the same thing. OP wants attention, wants to be pursued... Isn't getting it and is pissed off. You are not getting my point. The point I was making is if a guy is interested HE WILL pursue....has nothing to do with me wanting attention. I've asked guys plenty of times if you go up and read my comments. It just doesn't work out if they are not the pursuer...EVER
AH1990 Posted November 21, 2011 Posted November 21, 2011 You hit the nail on the head with your insight, I see the same thing. OP wants attention, wants to be pursued... Isn't getting it and is pissed off. Hmm reminds me of the girl I was trying to be with. I initiated everything with her. Then one day when I don't text her, she freaks out and asks me 'howcome your not talking to me'. Kinda pisses me off to be honest. She tried doing something like that a few weeks ago. Telling me she was bored, all her friends ditched her, and she has nothing to do. Low and behold she asks me if we can go do something together. I seen right through the bull$hit! Week prior to that I asked her out and she said she was busy the whole week. But the one day your friends ditch you, you try to use me as a last resort. I said no, I was busy. $hit hit the fan! If nobody played games, everything would be fine. But its the, you chase me, I chase a little, you chase me, I chase a little, you give up, I get mad crap that makes people sick!
Ariadne Posted November 21, 2011 Posted November 21, 2011 I guess from experience I feel that if a guy really wants to see you, even if he is a little bit unsure if you want to see him again...he will make it happen and ask you out. Without you having to chase him down. I hate asking guys out it just comes off so aggressive. Just calm down. He will contact you soon most likely. In the mean time you can watch this. Good luck!
Frogwife Posted November 21, 2011 Posted November 21, 2011 Just calm down. He will contact you soon most likely. In the mean time you can watch this. Good luck! This is a very good video!
mammamia1 Posted November 21, 2011 Posted November 21, 2011 as a girl, I agree with the comments above. Being rejected (that guy DARE not pursuing me!!!) helps me appreciate guys who I rudely rejected I got what I gave. Fondue got it damn right. Time to kill attitude girl
stillafool Posted November 21, 2011 Posted November 21, 2011 OP I don't know how old you are but did it ever occur to you that in this economy he may not have the money to ask you out again this soon after just seeing you Wednesday night?
Author starla33 Posted November 21, 2011 Author Posted November 21, 2011 as a girl, I agree with the comments above. Being rejected (that guy DARE not pursuing me!!!) helps me appreciate guys who I rudely rejected I got what I gave. Fondue got it damn right. Time to kill attitude girl Rejection? I've had rejection...him texting me after the date is not taken as rejection at all. You guys over react as well wow. I'm a gold digger and feel entitled? I pay for half my dates most times.
Author starla33 Posted November 21, 2011 Author Posted November 21, 2011 Starla, There is no magic answer. You come across as less likeable with every post. Poor social skills, confrontational, naive, immature. This isn't a personal attack but things you might want to work on. Listen to others and not get your back up. No need to prove to others that their opinions have no value. If you feel that you have played no negative role then you are indeed that rare 'prefect' human being destined to go straight to heaven. No I'm totally taking your oppinion into consideration, but FemBot is being ridiculous and attacking me for no good reason. I like relationships equal, but like to be OLD FASHIONED excuse me for that when it comes to the courting stages as me asking guys out has previously made them VERY LAZY in relationships. So I speak from experience, maybe yours has been different and I'm sure not everyone is the same....but yeah
musemaj11 Posted November 24, 2011 Posted November 24, 2011 Sorry to hear that, I definitely don't make out with guys I wouldn't want to see again, but I get your point. I don't feel I am playing games, i just like very dominant aggressive men. I have previously asked guys out on 2nd and 3rd dates and it ended up with ME doing all the work and them not being very interested...so I have stopped doing that and wouldn't want to go down that road again. So you would rather have the guy do all the work instead? You are one smart cookie.
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