Bill1023 Posted May 24, 2004 Posted May 24, 2004 I have been talking to this girl for a week now and she is really really cute. I am actually nervous talking to her which I'm usually not. I am three years older then her so usually it would be the other way around I asked her for her number and said she could observe my kindergarten class sometime since she wants to be a teacher. She was all for it. I talked to her a few times on the phone and it seemed like she was a little nervous talking to me as well. I have asked her twice to hang out but not as a date. I just have told her to come out with some friends to go to a bar in the area. I want to take the approach where we get to know each other better and then ask her out. She hasn't come out both times but has called me the next day to tell me that she was sorry and that she didn't go out. We seem to have things in common but I just don't know where it will go. Is the fact she didn't come out that she doesn't want to pursue anything with me or is it just me being paraniod? And do girls know if they want to date a guy right when they first meet them or do they actually give guys a chance to make an effort?
bluechocolate Posted May 24, 2004 Posted May 24, 2004 I would say that if she was interested in you she would have made an effort to meet up with you & your friends. After all, that is a far less frightening prospect than going on a one-to-one date. Even if she doesn't like drinking or something like that she would at least have told you to give you the change to suggest something else.
bluechocolate Posted May 24, 2004 Posted May 24, 2004 Originally posted by Bohdi10 Woman's Perspective? are you the same person as Bill1023?
Bohdi10 Posted May 24, 2004 Posted May 24, 2004 No just wondering what a women's perspective would be on this issue rather then a guy.
bluechocolate Posted May 24, 2004 Posted May 24, 2004 I'm just wondering that maybe Bill1023 would appreciate a response from you rather than you wondering what someone else's perspective might be on his issue.
Bohdi10 Posted May 24, 2004 Posted May 24, 2004 I think that you have a geniune chance. Who is to say that she isn't nervous or has trust issues so she needs to know your worth it or not. I think that you need to give things a chance and that you can't give up so easily or you'll never know. Who knows, if you are to give up now then you will never find out if she really likes you and then you would have lost out on something really great. I say go for it but I think women think differently then men do so that is why I would like to know a womens perspective on this one. Maybe she was busy with work or something else this week, you have only talked to her for a week.
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