RecordProducer Posted November 21, 2011 Posted November 21, 2011 What's the big deal, folks? He met these girls at some party and they had sex with him right away (one of them). It's not like he told them he was going to examine their breasts for lumps because he's a med student and they naively pulled their shirts up. If they had sex with him just because they thought he's a med student, then they deserve the lie so they can feel better about their one-night stand. He didn't lie to them while trying to get to know them for a possibly serious relationship.
RecordProducer Posted November 21, 2011 Posted November 21, 2011 Except you don't know if that's why they slept with him. Perhaps they would have slept with him even if he said he was folding shirts at a Chinese dry cleaning sweatshop.Nah... They didn't sleep with him because he said he's a med student. The little lie just made him look more attractive. A cute doctor is sexier to many women than a cute laborer.
Ilovewater Posted November 21, 2011 Posted November 21, 2011 Hmm...well, I don't know if I would use the "low level tactics" to get laid, but I'd use those tactics to get women to date me. You know, act like a player, but instead of walking after having sex, I'd actually stick around. If a man did that to me, I would not be with him even if he stays around if I ever find out. I'd definitely feel deceited. Maybe other people can overlook things like that, but I expect honesty from my partner. And yeah, I complain about how hard I have it dating wise, and yeah I'm not really going to change anything I'm doing. I'm as good a catch as I'm ever going to be, why would I have to change? Maybe you are a good catch. I don't know since I don't know you. However, if you have absolutely no problems, why do you have such a hard time finding a good woman then? (This is not meant to be offensive.) The problem might not be your personality, your looks, etc. However, there might be a problem with how you approach women. You can work on that. That's just an example. It's kind of like a woman who has unrealistic expectations. She may be the greatest person ever, but if she continues to have those expectations, she'll never attract or find a guy because she'll repel all of the men. If she doesn't change, she can't expect different results.
fortyninethousand322 Posted November 21, 2011 Posted November 21, 2011 If a man did that to me, I would not be with him even if he stays around if I ever find out. I'd definitely feel deceited. Maybe other people can overlook things like that, but I expect honesty from my partner. Maybe you are a good catch. I don't know since I don't know you. However, if you have absolutely no problems, why do you have such a hard time finding a good woman then? (This is not meant to be offensive.) The problem might not be your personality, your looks, etc. However, there might be a problem with how you approach women. You can work on that. That's just an example. It's kind of like a woman who has unrealistic expectations. She may be the greatest person ever, but if she continues to have those expectations, she'll never attract or find a guy because she'll repel all of the men. If she doesn't change, she can't expect different results. Well, it probably is how I approach women. I probably don't approach very confidently, or very "smoothly" or whatever. But, I'm honestly too tired and fed up to try to get better and more confident (I mean why should it matter to a woman if I'm a little shy or awkward at first?). I kind of want to see if I can get a desperate woman to settle for me. It seems like a much easier, hassle free way to go.
Dust Posted November 21, 2011 Posted November 21, 2011 I remember there was this guy who married a woman and for years he told her he was in Med school but then when he could no longer keep the lie up he killed her then himself. personally I wouldn't want to date some loser girl who only goes out with guys because she thinks he'll be rich.
Shaun-Dro Posted November 21, 2011 Posted November 21, 2011 Well, it probably is how I approach women. I probably don't approach very confidently, or very "smoothly" or whatever. But, I'm honestly too tired and fed up to try to get better and more confident (I mean why should it matter to a woman if I'm a little shy or awkward at first?). I kind of want to see if I can get a desperate woman to settle for me. It seems like a much easier, hassle free way to go. Believe or not, there are plenty of desperate dames roaming the streets. Of course, they're not hot foxes or whatever, more like average looking by normal standards, maybe over the hill a little bit, might have a couple kids on the loose, etc. If these selections are not what you're after, then you'll have no choice but to tweak your approach and then some. As fas as making up lies just to nail an attractive woman, you'll definitely need a scope of strategies as the OP had employed.
fortyninethousand322 Posted November 21, 2011 Posted November 21, 2011 Believe or not, there are plenty of desperate dames roaming the streets. Of course, they're not hot foxes or whatever, more like average looking by normal standards, maybe over the hill a little bit, might have a couple kids on the loose, etc. That's fine with me, just as long as they're ok with an inexperienced 23 year old. If these selections are not what you're after, then you'll have no choice but to tweak your approach and then some. As fas as making up lies just to nail an attractive woman, you'll definitely need a scope of strategies as the OP had employed. At this point, what I'm after doesn't really matter, it's about what I can reasonably get without being selfish. I'm not necessarily looking to duplicate the OP's strategy, but the idea does intrigue me.
RecordProducer Posted November 21, 2011 Posted November 21, 2011 I remember there was this guy who married a woman and for years he told her he was in Med school but then when he could no longer keep the lie up he killed her then himself.I am sure that's why he killed her and himself!
SteveC80 Posted November 21, 2011 Posted November 21, 2011 Well according to feminists like Madam Chaucer everything is always a man's fault. There is no situation like yours where it's nobody's fault if only you just "changed your attitude" you would get as much play as the guys who lie about being doctors I want Madam Chaucer to tell you specifically what cliche in your "attitude" you need to change, and then do it. Then when after 6 months you're still in the same exact situation you started off in, maybe she will start giving worthwhile advice instead of patronizing people. Sometimes, men just aren't attractive to women and it's for purely physical reasons. Why is that such a difficult concept to grasp? You know what else? A lot of males who are completely normal are unattractive to women because they're not very tall, they're skinny, dont have a good job, don't have a car, or any other myriad of bull **** on a woman's list of "must-haves". Yeah i dont know why some people think looks arent that important to women, they are Too much psyhco analyzing goes on for guys who cant get women Some guys just arent physcially attratcive to owmen,no cliche ridles advice and or saying change your attuitude and confidence will make a difference if a women isnt attracte to you physically at all
Dust Posted November 21, 2011 Posted November 21, 2011 I am sure that's why he killed her and himself! Big grin eh. You're so devilish lately RecordProducer must be all that logic. Obviously a crazy man. The more I think about it you can't get away with not lieing and still get laid. I mean it would be like going on a job interview and being completely honest.
RecordProducer Posted November 21, 2011 Posted November 21, 2011 Big grin eh. You're so devilish lately RecordProducer must be all that logic. Obviously a crazy man. The more I think about it you can't get away with not lieing and still get laid. I mean it would be like going on a job interview and being completely honest. 'Zacly! If people were honest, nobody would ever have a job or a lover! See, lies are good for human reproduction and industrial progress. Somehow this world functions despite lies - or even thanks to lies. But it cannot function without lies.
joystickd Posted November 21, 2011 Posted November 21, 2011 Big grin eh. You're so devilish lately RecordProducer must be all that logic. Obviously a crazy man. The more I think about it you can't get away with not lieing and still get laid. I mean it would be like going on a job interview and being completely honest. I have and still do. It shows insecurity and lack of confidence when you have to resort to lying to get laid.
Dust Posted November 21, 2011 Posted November 21, 2011 'Zacly! If people were honest, nobody would ever have a job or a lover! See, lies are good for human reproduction and industrial progress. Somehow this world functions despite lies - or even thanks to lies. But it cannot function without lies. Well honesty all the time would be brutal. Girls want you to tell them sweet little lies. But they don't necesarily want to be tricked. This guy suposedly tricked a girl to get laid. Not that we should feel sorry for the girl if she is this easily tricked. I have and still do. It shows insecurity and lack of confidence when you have to resort to lying to get laid. Did the guys in wedding crashers seem insecure? Seriously calling a guy who goes to a night club claiming to Von Tippytop the Maple barron doesn't quite capture the situation.
NYC-BigKat Posted November 21, 2011 Posted November 21, 2011 That's fine with me, just as long as they're ok with an inexperienced 23 year old. At this point, what I'm after doesn't really matter, it's about what I can reasonably get without being selfish. I'm not necessarily looking to duplicate the OP's strategy, but the idea does intrigue me. I'm sorta intrigued by the idea also but dont know any lying stories to tell to get me laid tho. I kinda wonder what Romeo said to the girl to get them back to the hotel or w/e to have sex? Were they just drunk all over?
RecordProducer Posted November 24, 2011 Posted November 24, 2011 I have and still do. It shows insecurity and lack of confidence when you have to resort to lying to get laid.You're right. Let's kill him. We don't want any insecure people crawling among us - the best of the best of the best - and we know we are so we don't ever have to lie about anything. (We honestly tell our dates "I'm just a nobody at my workplace... oh, and I do stupid things when I get drunk, you'll soon see what a loser I am..." ). Well honesty all the time would be brutal. Girls want you to tell them sweet little lies. But they don't necesarily want to be tricked. This guy suposedly tricked a girl to get laid. Not that we should feel sorry for the girl if she is this easily tricked. I don't see how he tricked her. He didn't tell her he was collecting money for kids with cancer to extort money from her. He old her something that was irrelevant to having sex the next minute.
joystickd Posted November 24, 2011 Posted November 24, 2011 Well honesty all the time would be brutal. Girls want you to tell them sweet little lies. But they don't necesarily want to be tricked. This guy suposedly tricked a girl to get laid. Not that we should feel sorry for the girl if she is this easily tricked. Did the guys in wedding crashers seem insecure? Seriously calling a guy who goes to a night club claiming to Von Tippytop the Maple barron doesn't quite capture the situation. No one wants to be lied to. You would be surprised the results you get if you would be honest
dasein Posted November 24, 2011 Posted November 24, 2011 9 pages, OP made only the first post. We are lame.
RecordProducer Posted November 24, 2011 Posted November 24, 2011 No one wants to be lied to. You would be surprised the results you get if you would be honest Okay, I am definitely going to try it! 9 pages, OP made only the first post. We are lame. We're nothere for OP; we're here to blurt out our opinions (you know what they say, "An opinion is like an as*hole - everyone has one).
Elysian Powder Posted November 24, 2011 Posted November 24, 2011 By employing low-level tactics to get laid like the OP, using alcohol to get women like SomeDude's thread, continuously complaining about how hard it is to get women but doesn't do anything to change, etc. There are many ways to act desperate. Somedude can't get laid because, at 5'6'' he's one of the shortest adult males in the western world. A friend of mine is good-looking and bulky. When we are in a beach, if he's sitting on the sand, women will approach him by the dozens. But they lose interest as soon as he gets up. 5'7''. I know a guy in his 50's, 5'5'', exceedingly obese, bald, no money, stricken with several serious life-long medical conditions, and he's dating 3 females aged 40-45 who are attractive, educated and independent, but the good men are dating 20-something women. Somedude gotta wait 30 years. He can visit prostitutes until then.
LexiB Posted November 24, 2011 Posted November 24, 2011 Can't believe a thread about a ONS with some [obvious] skanks lasted so long. Mountain out of a molehill, people.
NYC-BigKat Posted November 27, 2011 Posted November 27, 2011 I just wish I had the balls & talent that Romeo had to get laid so easily.
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