fortyninethousand322 Posted November 20, 2011 Posted November 20, 2011 Who gives a sh*t that he had to lie to get laid? He still go laid! If anything he deserves props for thinking of a story that would work and being able to sell. Not everybody can do that. If I was clever enough and a good actor that I could lie my way into some pussy, I'd do it all the time. Sure as hell beats getting nothing since that's all that being honest gets me. Yeah I agree here. Playing the honest and straightforward card is most of the time a losing card. I used to criticize men who did this and think they're horrible people, but I actually think a lot of women like this kind of thing. Good for them, getting what they actually want.
somedude81 Posted November 20, 2011 Posted November 20, 2011 You forgot the proper emoticons to indicate that you are being ironic. Very funny. The answer to your question, in case you are not being ironic, can be easily found by reading any part of your posting history. I'm being serious. You obviously think there is something wrong with me and I'd like to hear it.
Ilovewater Posted November 20, 2011 Posted November 20, 2011 Yeah I agree here. Playing the honest and straightforward card is most of the time a losing card. I used to criticize men who did this and think they're horrible people, but I actually think a lot of women like this kind of thing. Good for them, getting what they actually want. The OP and the women he slept with are the same kind of people - manipulative people who use others for sex. It works out for both parties. Every trash can has its lid. Being honest will win women who have real substance. The only thing you'll win by being dishonest and manipulative are low-class women who don't have any values. Obviously, the OP isn't looking for a mature, self-respecting women.
Shaun-Dro Posted November 20, 2011 Posted November 20, 2011 Who gives a sh*t that he had to lie to get laid? He still go laid! If anything he deserves props for thinking of a story that would work and being able to sell. Not everybody can do that. If I was clever enough and a good actor that I could lie my way into some pussy, I'd do it all the time. Sure as hell beats getting nothing since that's all that being honest gets me. In certain cases, honesty isn't always the best policy when it comes to women, no matter how much she whines about it. Also note that the OP stated how they were drinking before he came so in retrospect, it heightened his game because their defenses were down. We all know what alcohol does to women. Targeting foreign women on top of this also brought in the points. I wish I were there to witness this. I wouldn't bother with the bogus act in being someone I'm not, but I'd sure as hell will work in more alcohol to ensure there are no defenses on her part from my advances.
fortyninethousand322 Posted November 20, 2011 Posted November 20, 2011 The OP and the women he slept with are the same kind of people - manipulative people who use others for sex. It works out for both parties. Every trash can has its lid. Being honest will win women who have real substance. The only thing you'll win by being dishonest and manipulative are low-class women who don't have any values. Obviously, the OP isn't looking for a mature, self-respecting women. Considering I'm getting zero kinds of women, a very big part of me thinks "low-class women" beat no women at all.
Shaun-Dro Posted November 20, 2011 Posted November 20, 2011 Considering I'm getting zero kinds of women, a very big part of me thinks "low-class women" beat no women at all. And often the low-class women are the better-looking ones anyway so do whatever it takes if you feel the need to get some of that elusive vagina. The higher-class self-respecting women usually have unrealistic standards so most men stay away from them, plus they're not as attractive.
Nexus One Posted November 20, 2011 Posted November 20, 2011 I'm a guy, but I sometimes get a bit tired of the attitude of a lot of the guys on this forum. How can you guys live with all that negativity all the time? Being negative about something when it's warranted, sure I can understand that, but all the f*cking time? I especially mean the negativity about women and about yourselves.
fortyninethousand322 Posted November 20, 2011 Posted November 20, 2011 I'm a guy, but I sometimes get a bit tired of the attitude of a lot of the guys on this forum. How can you guys live with all that negativity all the time? Being negative about something when it's warranted, sure I can understand that, but all the f*cking time? I especially mean the negativity about women and about yourselves. First of all try walking a mile in my (or SD81's or a handful or other posters) shoes. Then, you can be all "high and mighty" about our negativity. And secondly, I'm not negative all the time. I had fun playing basketball the other day, and my Ravens won today (a fairly important game) so I'm a bit of a mixed bag.
Wolf18 Posted November 20, 2011 Posted November 20, 2011 Excuse me. What is wrong with my character and attitude? How could you possibly think that those things are the reason I'm celibate? Well according to feminists like Madam Chaucer everything is always a man's fault. There is no situation like yours where it's nobody's fault if only you just "changed your attitude" you would get as much play as the guys who lie about being doctors I want Madam Chaucer to tell you specifically what cliche in your "attitude" you need to change, and then do it. Then when after 6 months you're still in the same exact situation you started off in, maybe she will start giving worthwhile advice instead of patronizing people. Sometimes, men just aren't attractive to women and it's for purely physical reasons. Why is that such a difficult concept to grasp? You know what else? A lot of males who are completely normal are unattractive to women because they're not very tall, they're skinny, dont have a good job, don't have a car, or any other myriad of bull **** on a woman's list of "must-haves".
Wolf18 Posted November 20, 2011 Posted November 20, 2011 And often the low-class women are the better-looking ones anyway so do whatever it takes if you feel the need to get some of that elusive vagina. The higher-class self-respecting women usually have unrealistic standards so most men stay away from them, plus they're not as attractive. So true. "High class" is just a codeword for "only puts out for rich guys".
johan Posted November 20, 2011 Posted November 20, 2011 First of all try walking a mile in my (or SD81's or a handful or other posters) shoes. Then, you can be all "high and mighty" about our negativity. I agree. You guys are truly victims of life. There is no reason people should expect stoicism out of you, when you are regularly subject to slights that can only erode your masculinity and leave you with no alternative but to cry out against the unfairness of it all.
Febreze Posted November 20, 2011 Posted November 20, 2011 Its the truth. The **** went down last night at this social lounge on LES. I rolled in with 2 of my boys but split from their comp about 15 min in after I spotted 2 foreign chicks on the sofa sipping it up . So I popped in some convo, told them I was a med student at NYU. They ate that **** up like candy lol. One of the chicks was from Venezia or some **** with a nice ass tan and big tits. The other babe was French. Me and the Italian broad got busy back at the hotel she was staying up in midtown on a Visa. After the sex, she kept asking about the med field and all that good stuff so I fed her more lies lol. She loved it! Then she called her French gf up and I got to see her later in the earlier part of the morning. I didn't get to **** her but definitely made out with a ton of wet kissing and feeling her tits up. She gave me 2 of her cell digits and made it clear she wanna meet again. I fed her some med bull**** and she ate it up too lol. These chicks were young like 21-23 with heavy ass accents but w/e still was fun though trying to catch their funny words & they trying to catch my slang. They couldn't lay off! I never done this **** before but it worked like a charm. I dont even know what came over me but I gotta try this again. Fellas that cant get, laid do pay heed! You're a terrible person & I wish u would've tried that garbage on me & I would've embarrassed you for all your worth! I'm a nurse for many years & your charade would've been broken down in seconds. Guys like you give the genuinely meaningful men a bad name. I do hope u will stop doing this because you're hurting other good men's chances
Shaun-Dro Posted November 20, 2011 Posted November 20, 2011 You're a terrible person & I wish u would've tried that garbage on me & I would've embarrassed you for all your worth! I'm a nurse for many years & your charade would've been broken down in seconds. Guys like you give the genuinely meaningful men a bad name. I do hope u will stop doing this because you're hurting other good men's chances What in the world are you yakking about? These women were not good in any stretch of the human imagination. What the OP did was utilize a game that works on worthless skanks that couldn't spot a bullet with their name on it a foot away. The OP shot that bullet right through their underwear!
Nexus One Posted November 20, 2011 Posted November 20, 2011 Lying is worse in my opinion when it involves taking advantage of somebody's good nature. In this case he was trying to take advantage of their "bad" nature, hoping they'd be gold diggers. It's still ****ty behavior but I don't see it as some moral outrage. I'm not about to get up in arms about it. What's more appalling to me is that he's actually proud of it. Except you don't know if that's why they slept with him. Perhaps they would have slept with him even if he said he was folding shirts at a Chinese dry cleaning sweatshop.
Shaun-Dro Posted November 21, 2011 Posted November 21, 2011 Except you don't know if that's why they slept with him. Perhaps they would have slept with him even if he said he was folding shirts at a Chinese dry cleaning sweatshop. Come on! You know darn well there's no way any woman, let alone some foreign babes are gonna sleep with an average Joe on the spot like that. I know alcohol played a big role in it even though the OP didn't disclose just how much was consumed, but it definitely made them defenseless to this bogus game.
Ilovewater Posted November 21, 2011 Posted November 21, 2011 First of all try walking a mile in my (or SD81's or a handful or other posters) shoes. Then, you can be all "high and mighty" about our negativity. Or, maybe you're having such difficulty with women because of your negative attitude and problems. If you guys come off as desperate in real life as you do on LS, I can see why you keep complaining about not getting women. It's highly unattractive.
Art_Critic Posted November 21, 2011 Posted November 21, 2011 Foreign babes.. hahahaha.. they weren't foreign.. that was their other lie.. They were playing the role too....
fortyninethousand322 Posted November 21, 2011 Posted November 21, 2011 Or, maybe you're having such difficulty with women because of your negative attitude and problems. If you guys come off as desperate in real life as you do on LS, I can see why you keep complaining about not getting women. It's highly unattractive. I love this. Somehow women have these superpowers to be able to see that I have a negative attitude with minimal to no interaction with me. Not to mention the blatant victim blaming... And all this time people have been saying women are just regular people just like men. They really are these mystical creatures after all...
Disenchantedly Yours Posted November 21, 2011 Posted November 21, 2011 It's not the fact that the OP lied to get a piece of tail. You know..ever since James Cameron made Avatar, that line has a whole new meaning.
Disenchantedly Yours Posted November 21, 2011 Posted November 21, 2011 I Do I condone lying? No...but it happens. Those girls got played, but I still believe they wanted some action and found Romeo as an easy excuse. If they wanted to "protect themselves", then they shouldn't have taken him to their place for sex. IMHO, they wanted sex, and Romeo was the lucky one who caught their eyes. I even think he would have gotten laid without the lies. It sounds like he could have gotten laid without the lies, I agree. But who says they got played? Who says they wanted anything to do with him beyond getting laid? We are automatically putting the women in the position of "victim". They could have been just as predatory even if they weren't the ones lying. However, at things like clubs, there is always a least a thin sheen of lying from both sexes. A lot of posturing and fakeness. Why do so many guys put so much stock in if a woman will sleep with him or not? It's like these kind of men rate their worth on what women will or won't accept them. To me that speaks of a guy that doesn't have real confidence in himself.
Cracker Jack Posted November 21, 2011 Posted November 21, 2011 Or, maybe you're having such difficulty with women because of your negative attitude and problems. If you guys come off as desperate in real life as you do on LS, I can see why you keep complaining about not getting women. It's highly unattractive. Gotta disagree there. Most people try to fake confidence, but sometimes it still doesn't help. Just wondering, what does "coming off as desperate" actually mean? I see many assume this is the reason why guys struggle, but I honestly don't see it that way. Most people simply use online to vent, as I'm sure you already know. As much as I used to complain online, my attitude was never repulsive to any woman offline. Of course, if you don't talk to women, you're not helping yourself...
Ilovewater Posted November 21, 2011 Posted November 21, 2011 I love this. Somehow women have these superpowers to be able to see that I have a negative attitude with minimal to no interaction with me. Not to mention the blatant victim blaming... And all this time people have been saying women are just regular people just like men. They really are these mystical creatures after all... Well, I'm assuming that when you post something, that's actually what you are thinking. I've read many of your posts, and that's what you come off as on the forums. That's why I said "if you come off like this in real life". Maybe you don't in real life because most people don't express thoughts like these to strange random people. If other women posted the exact same thing as you, I would say the same thing to them.
fortyninethousand322 Posted November 21, 2011 Posted November 21, 2011 Well, I'm assuming that when you post something, that's actually what you are thinking. I've read many of your posts, and that's what you come off as on the forums. That's why I said "if you come off like this in real life". Maybe you don't in real life because most people don't express thoughts like these to strange random people. If other women posted the exact same thing as you, I would say the same thing to them. It is what I think, but not how I act. How does one "act desperate" anyway?
Ilovewater Posted November 21, 2011 Posted November 21, 2011 It is what I think, but not how I act. How does one "act desperate" anyway? By employing low-level tactics to get laid like the OP, using alcohol to get women like SomeDude's thread, continuously complaining about how hard it is to get women but doesn't do anything to change, etc. There are many ways to act desperate.
fortyninethousand322 Posted November 21, 2011 Posted November 21, 2011 By employing low-level tactics to get laid like the OP, using alcohol to get women like SomeDude's thread, continuously complaining about how hard it is to get women but doesn't do anything to change, etc. There are many ways to act desperate. Hmm...well, I don't know if I would use the "low level tactics" to get laid, but I'd use those tactics to get women to date me. You know, act like a player, but instead of walking after having sex, I'd actually stick around. And yeah, I complain about how hard I have it dating wise, and yeah I'm not really going to change anything I'm doing. I'm as good a catch as I'm ever going to be, why would I have to change?
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