wow123 Posted November 19, 2011 Posted November 19, 2011 I dated a girl for about 10 months. The first 6-7 months were fantastic. The best I've ever experienced. After that time we got into a big fight. My feelings seemed to change. I began acting differently which she picked up on of course. Although she was always the type of girl that was a little needy/insecure/required lots of attention, this caused her to be more needy as usual. Over the last 2 months of our relationship I began pushing her away as she became more needy. We both became very unhappy so I ended the relationship. Our breakup was as cordial as can be. We agreed that we may get back together when/if I felt right again. I hadn't since that big fight. A month after the breakup I contacted her to reconcile. I will admit this was the same day I became suspicious that there was a new guy in her life. Well, I was right there was. They started dating a few days after our breakup. At that time she said she wouldn't end it with him to try with me again. She was still willing to talk to me and about our relationship. At this point she has told me that we can no longer communicate because she has a bf. She has ignored all contact from me. So after a 10 month relationship she started dating the new guy a few days later. Now not willing to communicate with me at all because of her. They have been together just over 3 months now. Now I'm a mess. Is she in a rebound? Do I have any chance with her? What should I do? Thanks in advance.
Suki Lim Posted November 21, 2011 Posted November 21, 2011 In my opinion, it was right for her for not to waiting you. You have to understand that most guys are saying a lot of words to telling girls that I'll be changed or even requesting an endless waiting. I suggest you to act as a friend to get back into her life. It's much better for you to be a friend better than ex-boyfriend right? .. Regarding chances, it's hard to say but I believed that if you would become her close friend(someone who's getting her attention and she knew that you still like her), you could know when is the correct timing to get her back and of course, you need some sweet words that time. Be patient and wait for the things changed.
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