AlexisMacabre Posted November 19, 2011 Posted November 19, 2011 so if anyone has ready my coping journal then you would know me and my ex decided to be friends again, not only for our son but also for us. anyways, i started talking to this guy and i was really happy because he wanted to hang out and all that good stuff and well i told my ex because he asked and he was like im glad your happy anyways my ex kept texting me and then i told him i would talk to him later and stuff and he was like alright and i didnt expect to get a text at all from him so it didnt even bother me anymore but right now its 1:37 and so he texted me around 12:30 for what idk but he started asking about this new guy and i told him everything but it was question after question then he said he was gunna go to bed and he would talk to me later which i dont care if he does or not anymore anyways i dont get why he would text just to ask me stuff about this new guy im talking to when he said he didnt love me anymore, im not gunna let it bother me but i need some opinions and help when he does this again in the future.
ChelseaLS Posted November 19, 2011 Posted November 19, 2011 I would say that just because he said he wasn't in love with you anymore doesn't mean he doesn't care or love you still... just not IN love with you. He is probably a bit jealous and curious. Don't read too much into it. I either wouldn't reply or if you did, reply hours later and just say "Missed your text, didn't hear my phone". And leave it at that. I am always vague when my ex ask (always in person). He would always ask what my plans were for the weekend and where I was going. I would always reply "Oh you know going out with some people" or "I have a thing tonight". We aren't together anymore so he doesn't need to know.
Author AlexisMacabre Posted November 19, 2011 Author Posted November 19, 2011 yeah, you see he told me he didnt care about me either and stuff like that so thats why i was like ok? lol i was pretty honest with him since he asked and wanted to know i told him what was up and i said the new guy was pretty amazing and he asked me why and i told him cause he was super nice and he kept on asking more questions lol it just amazed me that he texted me at all and especially so late, so i guess ive been on his mind. hmm. who knows but my ex is toxic to me, i love him but hes hurt me more then anyone ever has and im just gunna have to leave it alone and wait for the divorce.
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