First time in a Boyfriends, girlfriend relationship.............What should I do?

[pupit]

HELP

 

What am I doing with him? Me and my ex-boyfriend met in march, it was not a good beginning but he came back and I took him back (he cried and asked for forgiveness). We started a new relationship. Before we did, He told me, his ex-girlfriend broke his heart so he did not want a girlfriend now. I went on with everything he said, but he came to my place on night and asked me out so we became boyfriend and girlfriend. This relationship just lasted-ed for three weeks. before he broke up with me , I asked him to take me to the movies, he said yes but on the next day he did not. When I asked him he yelled at me saying "I don't haver time to take you out, I love working, that is why I don't want any girls friend and you are behaving as any girl" HELLO, AM A Girl. What did he mean? I did not say anything. From then I never asked him anything anymore. After two weeks, we did not go out, but kept seeing each other five time a week.

I was home when I had a phone call, he said to me on the phone " Baby, I don't want this relationship anymore" I then asked why, he said " because you tell me what to do, you asked me to take you to the movies, you tell me to call you and if I don't, you are angry with me" What is he talking about? (I only asked him to take me to the movies) I said to him " but I like you" He said I like you allot too. He continued by saying to me "I wanted you to tell me to go **** myself long time ago and you didn't, I am a player" WHAT ON EARTH IS HE SAYING. We had a long talk that night and I hanged up the phone. After a week I did not hear from him. On the following week he called, and asked to see me. We saw each other that night and I asked him to explain to me why he would call and say those things to me. He said " I didn't want to get attached to you, so I did not call you for the whole week, I like you allot, and you said you love me. please take me back!." I was stupid, I took him back thing he has changed and he would not hurt me anymore. So we started seeing each other again and after another three weeks I asked him to help me pay my rent, I said to him I will give it back to you, as soon as get my paycheck. He said OK. Since then, I never saw his face. After one week I call him, and he told me he is going to a party, I told him, he should have a nice time. After that, he never call me anymore. Do any one think he just played me, is he going to come back, Should I stop calling him (I left four messages, and no respond) Should I forget about him and move on (I can't get over him) help me?

[Stone]

why would you put up with those Games....He's playing with you! Drop him before you get hurt anymore.

[dudesomewhere]

not sure if he's a player but he is a flake...either way should be out...

 

and that avatar is just wrong...lol

[pupit]

Thanks guys, that these advise will help allot, thanks!

 

So, if he should call, what do I tell him?

[bluechocolate]

Absolutely you should move on & stop calling him. I think you have enough evidence & experience that he is not the kind of guy you want to get too involved with.

 

If he calls just tell him you're busy & you'll get back to him or tell him that you're seeing someone else and are no longer interested in him.

 

He sounds like bad news to me. I'm sure you can do better.

[pupit]

Thanks, that will help.

[Stone]

If he should call tell him to go buy a bord game and play it .......because he's not playing you anymore!

[pupit]

Thanks Ston....