how does an 18 year old girl with no friends or experience get into dating?

[randomgirl1]

I'm 18. I have never really had a good friendship. Bit somewhat wondering when I have social experience with someone how do I meet people interested in dating me. I don't see how it works. Also if I went on a date for an 18 I'm immature in this way. I have not even held hands with a man or anything. When I see any guy look in my diretion I look away too scared if there's like something nice he sees I don't want him to validate or not validate that. I'm a little shy. But I want to experiment with a friendship with a guy. What can I do? Advice?

[Dust]

Are you cute? Not that it even matters. Guys will want to hold your hand, butt, and everything else. You not having experience is something many men will find cute, sexy even.

[randomgirl1]

at times I've been told I was attractive. I have a nice unusual body shape. But I'm not the most beautiful. I'm picky. But it's not rare at all to find the type I like I just don't know really where how do people get to dating I mean what worked for you?

[Dust]

at times I've been told I was attractive. I have a nice unusual body shape. But I'm not the most beautiful. I'm picky. But it's not rare at all to find the type I like I just don't know really where how do people get to dating I mean what worked for you?

 

Well I'm a man so all I have to do is go out looking for trouble and I'll find women. As a women though trouble will come looking for you my dear. Like the cat in the hat some man will work his way into your world and make a marvelouse mess of things. Lets hope he helps clean it up too.

[counterman]

As a friend of many girls who are in their 20s and have never dated, I would say you really have to put yourself out there. What are you doing at the moment? I'm assuming you're studying in college. If that's the case, go to as many college events as possible, join a sorority. On top of that, what are you interested in? Pursue your hobbies, take classes. If there has been anything you always wanted to try, now's your chance to. As for the specifics, put yourself in a position to meet guys, sit next to a guy in a class and say hi. I know you're shy but that can be overcome, I mean, I overcame it when I realised I wasn't getting anywhere when I was shy. There will be plenty of guys who want to be your friend, at least.

 

As for being picky, have you turned down guys before? A few of my friends who were picky, described that they want a tall, dark-haired guy, who writes them poems and plays them songs on the beach and sit together and watch the stars twinkle at night... I almost laughed right there. Oh and by the way, they have never dated before. You'll learn what you like in a guy and what you don't soon enough, but I wouldn't focus too much on pre-conceived notions on who you should be dating. If you're talking about attraction, then obviously you would want to date someone you're attracted to. If you're talking about Hollywood superstar, well...

 

Work on your friendship first, get a great social life with hobbies and interests and trust me you'll be in a position to meet heaps of guys, and some of them will want to date you and will ask you out.

 

Hope that helps

[Fondue]

If you're truly 18 and at least somewhat attractive, this shouldn't be difficult for you.

 

Spot a guy you think is attractive to you, go up to him, and say: "I'm legal and horny."

 

The rest will surely take care of itself, trust me.

[jobaba]

If you're truly 18 and at least somewhat attractive, this shouldn't be difficult for you.

 

Spot a guy you think is attractive to you, go up to him, and say: "I'm legal and horny."

 

The rest will surely take care of itself, trust me.

 

You are THE MAN!!!

 

[oaks]

I thought 18 year old girls talked to their girlfriends about this sort of stuff. Is that an option for you?