irc333 Posted November 19, 2011 Posted November 19, 2011 .....the person you are compatible with doesn't feel the same way or FZ's you. You know how frustrating that can be? Eventually, you do accept it, but from that moment forward, you're using THAT person as a gauge as the kind of future mate you're looking for. What's sad is, you can finish each others sentences, on the same page, and even get each others sense of humor, sometimes to the point where you're both laughing so hard that that your sides hurt, but....you've been FZ'ed. That being said, anyone here (mostly the men more than likely suffer this), been in that situation. And do you USE that person as kind of the ideal mate that you're looking for. "Yeah, I think we'd make a great couple, but she FZ'ed me, but after being with her, the kind of woman I'm looking for would be like her." Anyone?
oaks Posted November 19, 2011 Posted November 19, 2011 (edited) That being said, anyone here (mostly the men more than likely suffer this), been in that situation. And do you USE that person as kind of the ideal mate that you're looking for. If I get on that well with a woman but she just doesn't fancy me then, so long as I can think with the right head for a moment (and stop drooling over her), I've just made a wonderful friend. Great result! Do I consider those friends to be yardsticks with which to compare future potential partners? Not really, because everyone is so different, but it's fun to joke about. "If only I found someone like you who actually fancied me!" (Yes, some of my female friends know that I either do or did find them attractive. It's not as big a deal as some might think.) Edited November 19, 2011 by oaks typo
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