mike588 Posted November 18, 2011 Posted November 18, 2011 Ok I've been feeling alittle blue the last few days maybe due to the upcoming Holidays so I could use some good laughs. I think we all know what some people do when someone close to you dies,,,, losing someone you love(breakup) is close to the same thing, heck maybe even worst! You've been dumped,your hurting, you want him/her back,, what did you do or are still doing to "keep them close" to you? Did you keep a picture of him/her in your wallet or in your home? Did you wear a piece of clothing alot or jewery they gave you just to feel close to him/her? Play "our song" over and over? other?? What things did you do/are still doing?
ChelseaLS Posted November 18, 2011 Posted November 18, 2011 Ok I've been feeling alittle blue the last few days maybe due to the upcoming Holidays so I could use some good laughs. I think we all know what some people do when someone close to you dies,,,, losing someone you love(breakup) is close to the same thing, heck maybe even worst! You've been dumped,your hurting, you want him/her back,, what did you do or are still doing to "keep them close" to you? Did you keep a picture of him/her in your wallet or in your home? Did you wear a piece of clothing alot or jewery they gave you just to feel close to him/her? Play "our song" over and over? other?? What things did you do/are still doing? I've kept all the pictures of us... they are just in a box in my storage room. I still wear all the jewllery he bought me, because I love diamonds lol. As for clothes, when I moved I took one of his socks.. I sleep with it on my one hand haha jk! It was by accident, I chucked it, he'll be fine without it.
Author mike588 Posted November 18, 2011 Author Posted November 18, 2011 Love the sock joke,ha. It worked,, I laughed, Thanx.
ChelseaLS Posted November 18, 2011 Posted November 18, 2011 Love the sock joke,ha. It worked,, I laughed, Thanx. In all seriousness, my one gf took one of her ex's shirts and would wear it to bed everynight for a LONG time.
Rorschach64 Posted November 18, 2011 Posted November 18, 2011 I threw out everything she gave me, the polaroid of her I use to keep in my wallet, the letters she wrote me, and deleted every FB message she sent me,.....and everything else. It is best to bury the past and hope every memory goes with it in time I am sure she kept everything I gave her because at this time I believe with all my heart and mind she is remorseless about what she did.
lilyblue Posted November 19, 2011 Posted November 19, 2011 I have his tent. The only good way I've thought about getting rid of it is throwing it through his window
ladyravenloft Posted November 19, 2011 Posted November 19, 2011 Deleted all his pictures. Gave away the necklace he gave me on Listia. Put on what he decided was 'our song' and forced myself to listen to it over and over until it lost all meaning. Lost weight (still losing) Went from my natural red hair that he loved so much to a blonde. (I actually love how the blonde looks on me). And just to seal the goodbye, I've managed to reconnect with my ex-husband, who was there for me the entire time I was hooked on the idiot and it appears we're going to be getting back together!
wavejumper Posted November 19, 2011 Posted November 19, 2011 I made it a point to put everything that reminded me him away, out of sight. It was hard and I would inevitably come across something, but it was much better to not be confronted by anything that was of him and my life with him. When I finally deleted him from my facebook friends and off my skype list was the day I knew I was moving on. I also put all of his emails (and any new ones that came) in a separate folder called "the dump" lol, so I wouldn't have to see his name in my inbox. it helped... The adage 'out of sight, out of mind' is true, to a certain extent. it just takes time.
perfectlyflawed459 Posted November 19, 2011 Posted November 19, 2011 Ok I've been feeling alittle blue the last few days maybe due to the upcoming Holidays so I could use some good laughs. I think we all know what some people do when someone close to you dies,,,, losing someone you love(breakup) is close to the same thing, heck maybe even worst! You've been dumped,your hurting, you want him/her back,, what did you do or are still doing to "keep them close" to you? Did you keep a picture of him/her in your wallet or in your home? Did you wear a piece of clothing alot or jewery they gave you just to feel close to him/her? Play "our song" over and over? other?? What things did you do/are still doing? I still wear this beautiful celtic heart necklace made out of pure silve that he got for me. It is my favorite piece of jewlery I own quite honestly, and to me, it was a symbol of our love so it still makes me feel connected to him in a way. I also have the statue of two koala bears hugging each other sitting in my bathroom. That is why he called me his koala bear, because he said that statue was us haha. I also still have all the stuffed animals he won me at carnivals, the pictures, and the other jewlery and trinkets he gave to me. It doesn't really hurt me to have all these items, but rather reminds me of the countless great times we shared with one another. All these "reminders" honestly put a smile to my face and I wouldn't trade them for the world. I also know he still has the gifts I gave to him and his sister told me that he wears the shirt I gave him many months ago almost every night to sleep. So I guess he hasn't completely let go either hahahaha
Berlington Bob Posted November 19, 2011 Posted November 19, 2011 I still haven't gotten around to selling her engagement ring. Half out of missing her and wanting to hope things will somehow work out but also half because from what I hear I'll be lucky to get half of what I paid for it. Although with gold prices soaring and with the current state of the U.S. dollar I might want to hold onto it and trade it for a boat to China when our economy fails.
Rose_Petal Posted November 19, 2011 Posted November 19, 2011 I basicly deleted everything...he dumped me and a week later I had deleted him and his family from facebook, blocked them just so I wouldn't see their names anywhere, deleted all of the photos we had together from facebook and eventually the ones on my computer. I still have some of the jewlerry he gave me, though I through the cheap ones away. All the stuffed animals he gave me and other various worthless presents are in a box in my closet...thinking about dumping it in front of his house or simply throwing it away. I really don't want to hold on to anything because to me, it really didn't mean anything if it ended. It was just a phase. I also think it's the best way for me to move on, though he critizised me of thinking I can just delete him out of his life...I sooo wish I could but obviously memories stay in your mind Hope this is not abnormal behaviour. But I do not think holding on to anything is healthy for me if I want to move on...
smokey bear Posted November 19, 2011 Posted November 19, 2011 Funnily enough i know he has kept one of my wigs i wore for (just for a bit of a change) as one of his friends is wearing it in a facebook picture lol. Nothing to do with holding on but may give you a laugh, I save him under my phone contacts as "just wants sex" to remind myself everytime he breadcrumbs that he just wants sex lol. Makes me smile lol. I hold onto pictures, but they are filed away. He holds onto our house, its the exact way i left it.
Surf Rider Posted November 19, 2011 Posted November 19, 2011 I threw out everything she gave me, the polaroid of her I use to keep in my wallet, the letters she wrote me, and deleted every FB message she sent me,.....and everything else. It is best to bury the past and hope every memory goes with it in time I am sure she kept everything I gave her because at this time I believe with all my heart and mind she is remorseless about what she did. When my ex left me, I literally took every picture of her and burned them all and spit in the ashes. The same thing with every anniversary card she gave me. I made sure that everything that reminded me of her i got rid of like fb and all sorts of stuff.
mermaid1972 Posted November 19, 2011 Posted November 19, 2011 My boyfriend broke up with me recently. He's a married man. We've been 2 years together and i thought this day will not come. That eveerything will turn out for the good for us. His marriage is on the rock 3 years time before he met me. He said suddenly his wife became cold towards him. He asked her,she said she's not interested anymore. He never made any move that time. They still stay together as a family. Pretend nothing wrong when they are with their family for any occassion. They only talk for important things and when they start conversing they end up arguing. When we met I'm so happy and blessed to have him. He such a wonderful person. We enjoyed almost everything we did. We spend too much time together. I also envisioned him as my future husband. Then came the time his wife known about his affair. They talked and he said just for the sake of their daughter(22y.o.)they will stay as a family. Wife agreed and she said he do his own thing she do her own things. It's been ok with us. Then again the wife emphasized when is he moving out to the next room. She don't want him to stay with her in 1 room. He said not right. What will their daughter might think. Just recently,the wife said she wants to divorce him if he keep seeing me. She said he's only having a ball of a time. He decided to broke up with me. He said he still love his wife. He want their marriage to work out. He will start all over again to make things right. On my expense. It really hurts..So deep. I really loved him. I also beg him not to leave me. He sort his problem. I will wait. I send messages to him no reply. But when i threaten him I will hurt myself he will reply. I cannot move on. I'm still trying. Until now i'm still begging him to see me. I drown myself with my tears. I hope and pray that the time will come for him to realize that his marriage is not going to work out. That I'm just here waiting for him..I know its wrong in the first place. But I don't want him to feel lonely again. I'm here to provide comfort for him..He just have to let go himself...I wish..
Buttercup84 Posted November 19, 2011 Posted November 19, 2011 Sorry you are feelng blue hun I kept a few clothing items but will donate them to goodwil as they are winter clothes and next winter I want to have moved on already . He bought me the clothes . When he brought over my cat to my parents I didn't see him but he also brought a throw , because my cat loved it , I slept with it every night and cuddled it when it got warmer . Ha . I still have the heart necklace he gave me somewhere . I also have a photo of him , and a photo of the valentines card he made me on my phone
Zabs Posted November 19, 2011 Posted November 19, 2011 Holidays give everyone the blues I guess. Erm...don't think I have anythings to tell you re mine...to make you laugh..because my ex although he left me is stalker type...I guess I am not far behind..but that is only because he hasn't let me move on.. So...nope ...but I can share a joke with you...I hope you wil laff! There;s a Sister and a Priest in the desert, on a Camel Suddenly, the Camel collapses and dies. As they are thinking how to get out of this sticky predicament the Sister says to the Priest (Irish accent) "you nor Farder, I never actually seen a Man's body before!" and the Father replies to the Sister "Funny yer should say dat Sister, I never actually seen a Woman's body before...mebee we can help each udder out?" As the Father is fondling the Sister's Br***ts he get an err***ion. He holds it in his hands and says "Yer nor Sister...with dis...I can give the Powa of life!" So the Sister says to the Father "Orrr! Well do us both some good an stick it in dat Camel!" Much love Zabs xx
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