Author NotMolly Posted November 23, 2011 Author Posted November 23, 2011 Of course not! Trust me, I am not the idiot in this scenario.
whichwayisup Posted November 23, 2011 Posted November 23, 2011 Well is it possible your husband posted then? to throw you off the trail?
hoping2heal Posted November 23, 2011 Posted November 23, 2011 Well is it possible your husband posted then? to throw you off the trail? This is exactly what I thought. If OP didn't use her LS username to identify herself then how could she possibly, by any stretch of the imagination be found? Unless, someone who knows she posts here - like her HB saw the comment left on the blog and came here to throw off suspicion. That or this is just a troll thread I don't see how it could be anything but those other two scenarios.
Lokian Posted November 23, 2011 Posted November 23, 2011 This just got really interesting. How the heck did LFH think to look on Loveshack and find notMolly's post? I notice she just became a member and this was her first post. Because I posted this thread on her blog. Change names and faces when you post or else people start googling.
SoMovinOn Posted November 23, 2011 Posted November 23, 2011 NotMolly... Having read through this whole thread, I am surprised at not finding a couple of responses I expected. The primary one and most glaring is - perhaps he is reading about infidelity because he suspects *you* are doing something? Perhaps he is reading that blog repeatedly because, for some reason, he thinks *you* may be the author. There are a lot of other options as well, but the bottom line is, you just can't know with the information you have. The other thing I didn't see, although I know a lot of the advice you got here was based on this - trust your gut. If you think something is wrong, you are probably right. The only way you will know for sure is to check. In your situation, I used computer monitoring and tracking software (Spector Pro). Web Watcher is another good app for that. It is unfortunate you've gotten to this point. No matter what you find out, there is a problem. Obviously, if you find he is involved in an A, there is a problem, but, if you find he is doing nothing wrong, you need to examine your R and determine why you mistrust him. Either way, there are things you two need to address.
SidLyon Posted November 23, 2011 Posted November 23, 2011 Because I posted this thread on her blog. Change names and faces when you post or else people start googling. Yes the blog was easy to find. I didn't see the links in the comments though. Probably got deleted.
findingnemo Posted November 24, 2011 Posted November 24, 2011 I heartily suggest we don't feed any of them. :lmao::lmao: for a moment there I was wondering what thread is this? I haven't laughed so hard in a long time.
findingnemo Posted November 24, 2011 Posted November 24, 2011 Because I posted this thread on her blog. Change names and faces when you post or else people start googling. This was funny the first time because i suspected the H was involved. Who is this Lokian? ^^^^It's getting uncomfortable now.
Author NotMolly Posted November 30, 2011 Author Posted November 30, 2011 probably a former member who was asked to not return? seems there is another ow 'support' board where many of the members there, are also members here or 'guests' here. new board is looking for new members.It was easy peasy to join. The depths of the delusion. Disturbing!
Angelina527 Posted November 30, 2011 Posted November 30, 2011 It was easy peasy to join. The depths of the delusion. Disturbing! Not Molly, have you spoken with your husband yet or are you taking your time so you can gather more evidence?
Author NotMolly Posted November 30, 2011 Author Posted November 30, 2011 I am still gathering evidence and will continue until I can see an attorney. She thinks I am not computer savvy enough to catch them. That's one of many lies he's told.
kellyw Posted December 5, 2011 Posted December 5, 2011 so sorry your going thru the same thing. the internet is a haven for cheating. i recently found my soon to be ex doing the same thing...i looked at the history on his fav's in google and hes on an online dating service...hes got local hook ups the whole 9 yards. when confronted he lied...i open his email to find half naked pics of women and a message from him to send more. now hes out of the house and wont pay the bills...heres the real kicker..get ready..he was in prison for 10 years and stupid here yes me waited faithfully..handled all the bills ..sent him money and raised 4 wonderful kids alone. hes been in the home now for 2 months and this is what i get for all my dedication. yes i am offically an idiot. i should have known better. he cheated dozens of times before but stupid here believed all his jail house love letters...oh and to put the cherry on the cake im out of work due to a cyst on my spleen so now i have to hold my head down and ask my family who hates him for help. ive been in shock for 4 days now...moral of the story...someone always has it a bit worse to make you feel a bit better. hope you find a good person who deserves you.
Angelina527 Posted December 6, 2011 Posted December 6, 2011 I am still gathering evidence and will continue until I can see an attorney. She thinks I am not computer savvy enough to catch them. That's one of many lies he's told. Good luck, NotMolly...keep us updated.
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