quietGuy13 Posted November 18, 2011 Posted November 18, 2011 So i told you guys i met this girl and she became my great friend. Well it was sooooo simple, i didn't even do nothing. I was just myself and she liked me. But she's gone. to where she came from so that over but What i'm saying is that girls that like me as me are sooooo few.. That i may possibly never meet any girl that likes me. In all the places i've been(jobs etc) all the girls are talkative and fast speakers or gossipy types or nagging types. And they all think i'm stupid. The majory of the foreign girls i talkaed to also didn't likeme. So the friend i found was just a total match. And i dont think I will be able to find anyone as nice as her. Where can i find girls that would be interested in me? i'm male age 30s
FinOuch Posted November 18, 2011 Posted November 18, 2011 Where can i find girls that would be interested in me? i'm male age 30s And there are a boatload of women in their early 30s asking the same question. No real good answer there. Best advice I can give is get out there and do the things you enjoy and hope you bump into someone. Some would say online, but I'm not a fan.
oaks Posted November 18, 2011 Posted November 18, 2011 So, the women who like you are one in a million. Pretty special, eh? Where can i find girls that would be interested in me? Apart from playing with dolls, what are your hobbies? Maybe there will be girls who do the same hobbies, so try to find a club or society for people who do that hobby and then you'll meet girls with whom you share a common interest. But, I'm fairly sure you've asked this before and been given this advice before, so how did it turn out?
Author quietGuy13 Posted November 18, 2011 Author Posted November 18, 2011 My hobby is music and it doesn't matter. when i went to dance class for example, all the girls went with the talkative loud/player type guys after class. Most hobby places where people gather, are filled with those typical people who are talktaive and outgoing and they never like me.
OnyxSnowfall Posted November 18, 2011 Posted November 18, 2011 Look, you need to work on yourself and stop worrying about girls. Seriously. After you've been successful with working on yourself, then perhaps you should redirect some of your energy and your focus back into the area of copulation. Currently, you are obviously not ready for it. You're not going to change that by persisting until you encounter that rare female who is open to you as you are either. You would do better to increase your dating pool by improving your weakest areas (your self-esteem is a big one you need to target). Seek out all the aid you can get and work towards becoming independent. You can do it, it may take a lot of effort, but that's where your efforts should be. NOT in trying to get laid by beautiful girls. You haven't been getting anywhere with that, have you? Focus. Elsewhere. On. Yourself. FOR yourself. NOT to get laid / get into a relationship. Worry about that later.
oaks Posted November 18, 2011 Posted November 18, 2011 My hobby is music and it doesn't matter. when i went to dance class for example, all the girls went with the talkative loud/player type guys after class. Most hobby places where people gather, are filled with those typical people who are talktaive and outgoing and they never like me. That's your only hobby? Have you considered taking up a new hobby? Yes, many people will gravitate towards those with better social skills, so best get out there and work on improving your social skills... talking, for a start. Or, have you tried online dating? You're articulate when you type... so it might work.
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