D86 Posted November 18, 2011 Posted November 18, 2011 Let's say you met a girl online and first date went very well and there is good chemistry. Should you keep talking to other girls and going out with them or just focus on that one girl? Let's say this one girl meets all your expectations so far and everything is going "perfect". Thoughts?
oaks Posted November 18, 2011 Posted November 18, 2011 Let's say you met a girl online and first date went very well and there is good chemistry. Should you keep talking to other girls and going out with them or just focus on that one girl? Let's say this one girl meets all your expectations so far and everything is going "perfect". Thoughts? Is this just hypothetical? or is there a real girl and you're looking for real advice? We do this debate over and over several times a week... search for "multidating" and you'll find strong views for and strong views against. I'm generally in favour of multidating in the early stages, but if things are going perfectly and I haven't got any other dates specifically lined up then I can't see the point. Stick with the perfect girl!
Andy_K Posted November 18, 2011 Posted November 18, 2011 Depends what base you got to and/or how soon you're planning on seeing her again, or how often you're in contact. If you slept together or went pretty far, she's obviously into you very much so there's no point lining up other dates. If you're seeing her in a few days, there's no point lining up other dates. If she's in contact with you often enough that there's no way she could juggle other guys the same way, she's obviously invested in you so there's no point lining up other dates. In other cases, you might as well.
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