Berlington Bob Posted November 18, 2011 Posted November 18, 2011 Half joking here but I'm a pretty tough guy/ army infantry vet/ ex cop... The new guy is a hippie... literally... Maybe I should have found out where he lived when she first told me about it and just gone over there to pound his face in... I know it wouldn't have gotten her back but it seems like what someone should do when a dude takes your fiance away... I mean not 200 years ago you could have a legal dual and kill the guy. Just seems like we all of a sudden live in a world where its ok to sleep with someone's fiance. I dont think evolution can catch up that quick. Anyway I still think if I ever see him ill kick his ass a bit but I guess I'm not going to hunt him down or anything... Anyone have a good outcome from getting some old fassion whack-a-hippie justice? A bad outcome?
Von Posted November 18, 2011 Posted November 18, 2011 Lol. Hey man, no need to stoop to that level. What would "the most interesting man in the world" do. And better yet, what would a strong confident high self esteem guy do? Not lower his standards that way. It screams of jealousy and insecurity when you do that. Trust me ive done that before and it just made me look weak in the girls eyes. I recently joked around with my ex about beating up this guy that always wants her when he came back to be "friends", and its a small part of why she left me. I didnt think it was a big deal but I bet she did. Even when I backtracked and smoothed it over. We must never show that kind of weakness to our women. If some guy was gunna harm our girl, then ya beat them silly but in this case you will be more mature by leavin it be. Just my idea
johan Posted November 18, 2011 Posted November 18, 2011 The hippie guy is a dickhead for sure. But really, she's the one who let it happen. She is the one who let you down. Maybe you should thank him for making his move before you actually married her. The outcome ultimately would have been the same, but more costly and painful. He saved you from that. Also, i wouldn't underestimate him.
dreamingoftigers Posted November 18, 2011 Posted November 18, 2011 I technically don't think that it would be breaking NC. Just to answer your post question. I can think of more brilliant moves though (no insult). It'll just show the girl that she was "right to leave you" all along and you will look like an ape that picks fights with weaker guys because you can't handle rejection. Not that I don't empathize. It's just how it would look. And Mr. Hippie doesn't speak your language either. Trust me. He'll use this to score Hippie pity-points.
ChelseaLS Posted November 18, 2011 Posted November 18, 2011 It would be a sever stoop not to mention just re-enforcing her decision to leave you and you may make her hate you. Then could come all the fun talk about how you are nuts. Poor move. Don't do it.
Author Berlington Bob Posted November 18, 2011 Author Posted November 18, 2011 I'm not seriously considering it... anymore... I have to say when I went to get my stuff and missed him by about an hour that morning I would have. But I mainly posted this to vent. And to see if anyone had some interesting experiences in this area. Although I am still open to the idea if the dude gets all in my face or something. It's totally what Chuck Norris would do though...
EgoJoe Posted November 18, 2011 Posted November 18, 2011 (edited) Bob, don't listen to the Females here. If he knew she was engaged: You see dude you smash dude, make sure he has no teeth afterwards so you have a reason to smile if you get booked. If he didn't: Blame her and only her. Who gives a damn what she thinks if she's a liar and a cheater? I'm kidding really. It's only worth it if he pursued her knowing she was in a relationship and she still consciously made the choice no matter what. Edited November 18, 2011 by EgoJoe
Wolf1969 Posted November 18, 2011 Posted November 18, 2011 I beat up a guy in High School who took my girlfriend out to a movie. She lied to me about who she was with and her mother made her tell me (go Mom!). Anyway, I bloodied his nose up good and that was that. However, that was 24 years ago...my God how time flies. Being an adult, that type of thing could get me arrested. I would leave well enough alone. Like someone else said, she is 50% to blame. I'm sure he is doing all he can to stay out of your way.
ChelseaLS Posted November 18, 2011 Posted November 18, 2011 Yeah but even if he did peruse her fully knowing she was in a commited relationship, it's her decision in the end. I realize he had obviously a huge part in this, but by no means did she have to act on it. I suppose if your going to be angry, be angry at her.
FinOuch Posted November 18, 2011 Posted November 18, 2011 Yes. It's breaking NC. And if you're gonna break NC, then you might as well just go kick HER *ss instead. Since she's the one to blame. =P
Feelin Frisky Posted November 18, 2011 Posted November 18, 2011 Punch yourself in the face. She left you in some part because she preferred a sensitive intelligent man over a brute. The trouble is in you and assaulting him will be the ultimate statement of that and proof for all to see. I'd never blame the guy--it's between you and her and she apparently dumped you. Take your lumps and do better with someone else.
geegirl Posted November 18, 2011 Posted November 18, 2011 Half joking here but I'm a pretty tough guy/ army infantry vet/ ex cop... The new guy is a hippie... literally... Maybe I should have found out where he lived when she first told me about it and just gone over there to pound his face in... I know it wouldn't have gotten her back but it seems like what someone should do when a dude takes your fiance away... I mean not 200 years ago you could have a legal dual and kill the guy. Just seems like we all of a sudden live in a world where its ok to sleep with someone's fiance. I dont think evolution can catch up that quick. Anyway I still think if I ever see him ill kick his ass a bit but I guess I'm not going to hunt him down or anything... Anyone have a good outcome from getting some old fassion whack-a-hippie justice? A bad outcome? Your ex has a role to play in this as well. He didn't sleep with her. She chose to sleep with him. He didn't steal her, she chose to go with him. I'd rather the hippie.
Author Berlington Bob Posted November 18, 2011 Author Posted November 18, 2011 Yeah but I can't hit her now can I?
ChelseaLS Posted November 18, 2011 Posted November 18, 2011 Yeah but I can't hit her now can I? Well you could, but you'd get charged. Move on, ignore them both and work on you. You'll find someone better.
geegirl Posted November 18, 2011 Posted November 18, 2011 Yeah but I can't hit her now can I? I think she dodged a bullet.
sand26 Posted November 19, 2011 Posted November 19, 2011 This kind of immaturity is rampant nowadays. She probably left you because of similar actions. I'm glad she got away. Maybe you should seek counseling.
EgoJoe Posted November 19, 2011 Posted November 19, 2011 Yeah but I can't hit her now can I? I think he's referring to the fact that a self respecting man CAN'T hit a female. So he'd like to focus his rage and at the same time the mere act of talking about it and acknowledging the pratfalls of this action alleviates the desire. Something for the Women to consider.
Author Berlington Bob Posted November 19, 2011 Author Posted November 19, 2011 I think he's referring to the fact that a self respecting man CAN'T hit a female. So he'd like to focus his rage and at the same time the mere act of talking about it and acknowledging the pratfalls of this action alleviates the desire. Something for the Women to consider. BINGO... also to quote my first 3 words of this post... HALF JOKING HERE... people get dumped and lose all sense of humor...
nu464 Posted November 23, 2011 Posted November 23, 2011 I'm feeling really depressed over my EX & can't really move on... Help? got pregnant by my ex-bf and he didnt want to hold any responsibility, told me to go abort but i didnt. So now im keeping the baby for baby's sake, not for him to come back to me. He wont, anyway. Im just depressed coz Ive been getting this see-saw attitude from him the past few weeks, which he promised will treat me better but no, he never did. I began to lose the hope and wonder what the hell this guy is making me feel like ? He only sees me for sex ( it seemed ) and told me its the only way he could feel my love ! Isnt this absurd or simply a way of getting himself satisfied ? I was so pissed with him that I told him last monday i want to absolve from this r/s as what hes been doing to me is really hurting me. And becoz if this, ive been so depressed on off over him which i know it aint worth it ! Yet I keep thinking about him, even when im busy. i really dont know what else to do...this is just so depressing... Additional Details How i wish i can HATE him , but what makes me depressed was the sweet moments i used to remember past year. But thats not him, he said hes just accomodating to me and now his true self has shown. we are both 31.
D86 Posted November 23, 2011 Posted November 23, 2011 Go ahead and beat him up. And then have fun paying 5000$+ for lawyers and court fees and possible jail time and criminal record
wilsonx Posted November 23, 2011 Posted November 23, 2011 (edited) Sometimes I support posts like these and fully going back to the old days where this **** wasn't tolerated. There's a bunch of panseys on this planet. No one cares about the outcome of lawyers court costs, it would just be a bar fight. 2 guys go outside, one pounds the other and releases all his tension and go they both go on their separate ways. Most cities ive lived in, police do not even care about bar fights, they show up 10 minutes after everyone is long gone and drive off **** get a friend to do it Edited November 23, 2011 by wilsonx
leoc1973 Posted November 23, 2011 Posted November 23, 2011 Hey I love this post! I have done it! She called me childish told me she never wanted to see me again and a couple months later we were back together. A year later it was the same thing with another guy. Then after the 3rd guy I just couldn't take it anymore I found someone new and moved on. Still was very satisfying cause I would never worm on someone elses chick. Those guys are always snakes that prey on women having relationship troubles. They feed them that if I was your boyfriend bull crap. It almost seems like those guys don't have enough game to get their own women. Anyways that was when I was younger. Now that I am older and wiser I would smash his face in and then help him up shake his hand and say thanks for showing me what a whore my girlfriend is... you can have her! Its like one of the cardinal rules... its what makes men men you go find your own girlfriend or pay the price! Seriously tho have you ever heard of fighting words there is a such thing. Call someones mom a whore and you have a right(legally) to beat his ass. Google it! It should be the same way with couples. Touch a mans or womans SO and an ass whoopin is due!
hoping2heal Posted November 23, 2011 Posted November 23, 2011 Half joking here but I'm a pretty tough guy/ army infantry vet/ ex cop... The new guy is a hippie... literally... Maybe I should have found out where he lived when she first told me about it and just gone over there to pound his face in... I know it wouldn't have gotten her back but it seems like what someone should do when a dude takes your fiance away... I mean not 200 years ago you could have a legal dual and kill the guy. Just seems like we all of a sudden live in a world where its ok to sleep with someone's fiance. I dont think evolution can catch up that quick. Anyway I still think if I ever see him ill kick his ass a bit but I guess I'm not going to hunt him down or anything... Anyone have a good outcome from getting some old fassion whack-a-hippie justice? A bad outcome? Actually, it seems like the Hippie is already getting a bad outcome. He's now dating your fiance who is clearly not very loyal. As for the whole whacking a hippie..he's really not worth the assault charge you might face. If this guy new your fiance was in a relationship and pursued her has crappy character and morals but so does she, she couldn't be stolen away if she hadn't gone willingly - she is more to blame than he is because he doesn't know you - this woman was engaged to you and she chose to betray you and that is really much worse. I guess those two birds of a feather are flocking together..for now anyway until she does it to him too.
Author Berlington Bob Posted November 23, 2011 Author Posted November 23, 2011 Now that I am older and wiser I would smash his face in and then help him up shake his hand and say thanks for showing me what a whore my girlfriend is... you can have her! Exactly! As for the people afraid i'll get an assault charge, I used to work for the PD in my town. None of them would charge me... or any other citizen beating the **** out of someone sleeping with their fiance. Cops like justice. And in certain situations such as this one they even like street justice. Hell they might even find a reason to jail or at least cite him for something. Infidelity is much more common these days because guys/girls like this know (expect) that no physical harm will come to them by getting involved with a taken man/woman.
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