Flip301 Posted November 18, 2011 Posted November 18, 2011 The girl i had friends with benfits with was a real good friend that i knew for a year and a half.. we were doing FWB for 3 months and all the sudden she wanted to drop it and strictly stay friends.. it hurt bad because i was hoping to get something serious going.. her main words was that shes not on the same page as me and shes just not there yet. it took me a wile to accept it but 3 days later i did. i said we could be friends n leave it like that.. main thing about me is that I feel this is the right girl that i wanna be with.. things were going so well.. should i leave her alone or should i still go with the flow and see if she will give me a second chance?
Berlington Bob Posted November 18, 2011 Posted November 18, 2011 What I'm hearing is one of two things... 1. She wants more than FWB but you never told her that and so she doesnt want to get hurt when you find someone permanantly... 2. (more likely) YOU want to be more than FWB and from your post you seem to. I'm guessing you told her that or at least indicated it and she didn't want to ruin the friendship so she wants to go back to just friends. If its not # 2 then try telling her you wouldn't mind being more. (maybe think of a better way to put it though) If it IS #2 then give her space and let things cool down. Its likely she has thought it through and made up her mind to be just friends. But... if its worth it to you to try and push the matter you should know that it will probably not work and just end the friendship. And I really have no idea how you would get a girl who just wants to be friends to change her mind... Its usually one of those thing I try to not get to happen in the first place. But if you can do it you da man.
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