How to find out if she has a new boyfriend/ meets somebody new?

[theratandthecat]

This is a LDR. We broke up. Yet I can never tell from her facebook whether she has found a new boyfriend or not. She doesn't set relationship status. I know stalking is creepy, yet I'm just curious whether she has found another one.

Another question: The girl looks gorgeous, but I was only the third boyfriend that she had. The girl is pretty young, 18. Why don't guys approach beautiful girls more? I mean, why doesn't she have a new boyfriend already?

[ChelseaLS]

Why do you care? You are broken up. You will just be opening yourself up to hurt all over again. Forget about it and move on.

[theratandthecat]

I'm just interested.... and because I'm not yet over her. But is it not possible to find out?

[ChelseaLS]

I don't know I have never creepily stalked anyone. Perhaps she does and is doing you a kindness by not posting it.

[theratandthecat]

Maybe... but it keeps me second guessing... Are girls that quick to fall in love?

[ChelseaLS]

I wouldn't say so. Not if it is LOVE. But many people, men and women alike don't know the difference from love and lust (infatuation).

[Dust]

Make a fake facebook account and charm her and hit on her. If she says "I have a bf..." then you know. But she might just lie and say she has a bf to get you to stop flattering her online. Also she might realize its you and be annoyed.

[TheDovic]

You've two choices here dude... keep torturing yourself TRYING to find out (which you won't from Facebook unless she wants you to know), or you can ask her! Neither of these options are easy, but breaking up isn't easy either. It sucks donkey balls!!!!!!!!!!

[esteem-jam]

It doesnt matter anymore. If she does not have a BF this second, she will definitely have in the future, maybe tomorrow, meets somebody new, or has eye chemistry with a stranger and her heart skips a beat and etc etc?

It does not matter anymore, you have no control over her and you shouldnt have this control over somebody at all. Or you want her to stay single alone forever because you were so exceptional? If its meant to be, it will, dont worry further.