Berlington Bob Posted November 18, 2011 Posted November 18, 2011 The ex kept texting me to ask when she could see my/our dog that I am keeping. I didn't want to break NC but everytime she would text me I would have a bad day... Her last text was "Is there a time I could see (dog's name)?"... My response was "maybe in a couple weeks or so."... Not sure why I said that. I think I'm afraid that she will try to get the dog back through the courts if she feels I am purpously not letting her see the dog... I figured that telling her that it just hurts too much to see her would be showing her that she still has power over me and that I am not moving on. I can't decide if it was a good decision or not... I know there are people on both sides of the NC fence. Asking LS peeps if it was a good idea or not might be pointless since I can't take it back but any advice from here on? ... on a side note the Dr. just called and I don't have any STD's!!! yay!!!
Rorschach64 Posted November 18, 2011 Posted November 18, 2011 Haha to the STD part Honestly you should tell her that you do not think that any contact or seeing each other is benefical even if it is to see the furry person. That way it will seem rather...indifferent? If she mentions any legal ramifications or whatever then well....I dunno about that bit of business. :|
Author Berlington Bob Posted November 18, 2011 Author Posted November 18, 2011 Ok so that was a bad Idea... Didn't think this would happen but for some reason now I have this incredible urge to call her and just 'chat'... I'm controling it... barely... but I dont think I want to do that again. She texted me back "Okay" and I got happy for some reason. I think its cause I wasn't expecting a response at all. *I am Chuck Norris * I am Chuck Norris* I am Chuck Norris* At least now she will leave me alone for a couple weeks.
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