williesarus Posted November 17, 2011 Posted November 17, 2011 (edited) Beginning of the relationship was like heaven, he treated you like a baby. Shower you with love.. And as we go along... He gets comfortable, he doesnt say I love you unless i say it first. He went on a holiday with his family, but he didn't bother texting me that he arrived until i saw him online. I told him: "wow you have reception there?" he : "Hahaha are you like stalking me! how did you know that i was online!" So he started to tell me about the place and environment he is in. And i ended off by saying "hahaha Okay i shall not disturb you. have a great day!<3 " He replied, "You too! have a great day^^." Then i said,"I love you!" He didn't reply after that. So a few hour passes, he went online before he slept, tweeted "goodnight world!" But he didnt bother texting me goodnight and stuffs. Am i being paranoid? Or is it that he is not bothering about me? Edited November 17, 2011 by williesarus
chados Posted November 18, 2011 Posted November 18, 2011 Beginning of the relationship was like heaven, he treated you like a baby. Shower you with love.. And as we go along... He gets comfortable, he doesnt say I love you unless i say it first. He went on a holiday with his family, but he didn't bother texting me that he arrived until i saw him online. I told him: "wow you have reception there?" he : "Hahaha are you like stalking me! how did you know that i was online!" So he started to tell me about the place and environment he is in. And i ended off by saying "hahaha Okay i shall not disturb you. have a great day!<3 " He replied, "You too! have a great day^^." Then i said,"I love you!" He didn't reply after that. well i told my girlfriend that i loved her very often. but i was uncomfortable So a few hour passes, he went online before he slept, tweeted "goodnight world!" But he didnt bother texting me goodnight and stuffs. Am i being paranoid? Or is it that he is not bothering about me? well i told my girlfriend that i loved her very often. but i was uncomfortable because after a while i was feeling she was bored with me, and she was bored because she thought i didn't loved her. im trying to win her back right now. not sure that will happen but i can tell you this. if you feel there's a problem, bring it up now. she didn't say anything, just waited for me to show her something that i didn't realize i wasn't doing. in other words, she said it to late
geegirl Posted November 18, 2011 Posted November 18, 2011 Beginning of the relationship was like heaven, he treated you like a baby. Shower you with love.. And as we go along... He gets comfortable, he doesnt say I love you unless i say it first. He went on a holiday with his family, but he didn't bother texting me that he arrived until i saw him online. I told him: "wow you have reception there?" he : "Hahaha are you like stalking me! how did you know that i was online!" So he started to tell me about the place and environment he is in. And i ended off by saying "hahaha Okay i shall not disturb you. have a great day!<3 " He replied, "You too! have a great day^^." Then i said,"I love you!" He didn't reply after that. So a few hour passes, he went online before he slept, tweeted "goodnight world!" But he didnt bother texting me goodnight and stuffs. Am i being paranoid? Or is it that he is not bothering about me? Discuss it with him. Communicate and figure out what's derailing the R, why needs aren't being met, and what is the best way to move forward together. Guessing games and fishing trips won't get you two anywhere.
Zabs Posted November 18, 2011 Posted November 18, 2011 Methinks..he will probably think.. "Gosh! I went on HOLIDAY with my FAMILY! What's the big deal?" - because that is looking from HIS side of the fence. he is not taking into account how YOU see things.. Me personally, I would like to know that my bf arrived in a foreign country safely...probably wouldn't be too bothered about him after that as he is on holiday..noless with his family...but that's me. However, I can see how it could hurt..but truly, I doubt he has thought anything of it. Sounds more like a situation when one takes the other for granted. Refresh his memory by letting him know your worth... Much love, Zabs xx
Author williesarus Posted November 19, 2011 Author Posted November 19, 2011 Methinks..he will probably think.. "Gosh! I went on HOLIDAY with my FAMILY! What's the big deal?" - because that is looking from HIS side of the fence. he is not taking into account how YOU see things.. Me personally, I would like to know that my bf arrived in a foreign country safely...probably wouldn't be too bothered about him after that as he is on holiday..noless with his family...but that's me. However, I can see how it could hurt..but truly, I doubt he has thought anything of it. Sounds more like a situation when one takes the other for granted. Refresh his memory by letting him know your worth... Much love, Zabs xx thank u so much for your advice. hopefully things will go well..
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