Update...Ex called so I need more advice...Especially from the boys...

[TxTechGirl04]

So here's an update on my story...

 

Ex called on Wednesday night and I told him that I didn't really have anything to say to him....

 

Well he called me again on Friday night at 1:00 am (I guess thats really saturday morning)...we talked for a while and he kept saying "I'm really sorry for calling you this late"...I asked him why he called and he would just say "I don't know". We actually had really good conversation just like we used to!!!

We finally got on the topic of having a physical relationship and he asked me if I only wanted him for physical reasons and I, of course, said "No, I want you in my life for more than just that". So....I asked him if he only wanted me for physical reasons and he said "Yeah"....it really startled me so I ended up hanging up on him immedietly. Well, he called me back 7 times all of which I did not answer...he ended up leaving a message that said "I'm sorry I said that, you know that I'll always care about you, you mean a lot to me and I didn't mean what I said...call me back please"

 

Now here's where my confusion begins! I just don't understand why he would call me at such an odd hour if he only wants to be "friends"...in that case...why would he call me period after I told him that I didn't have anything to say to him...how do ya'll interpret the message he left...how do I react to it???

[bluechocolate]

He's told you before that he only wants to get together for sex & he's telling you again. How many times do you need to hear it?

 

Don't react to it at all.

 

Honestly, this guy sounds like a jerk.

 

And it sounds like he called you at 1am because he was horny & didn't hook up that night.

[dudesomewhere]

bootycall

[azgirl]

TxTech -

Sorry, girl but you need to lose this idiot! The others are right. He called because he was horny! And the message he left?? Mmmm. Sounds to me that he realized he sounded like an d*** (cuz he is) and was trying to cover his ass!

 

Move on. You deserve better.

 

Sorry I haven't written in a while. I have been really sick. Things are not going well for me and my guy/ex/roommate or whatever the heck I am supposed to call him now. I am beginning to think it is time for me to do the same. Still hurts, though.

[TxTechGirl04]

I understand that everyone thinks that it was a bootycall...except...we are 200 miles apart right now...

 

I was actually the one who brought up the conversation anyways...

 

The other thing is...when we were dating HE NEVER APOLOGIZED...It just made me kinda wonder when he called so late and I even questioned his motive and the first thing he said was "Whitney, I'm not drunk and Im not just calling you because I want some..." We actually had a really good convo prior to the hang up...

 

I'm still really confused! I haven't returned his call but am still contemplating calling him just to talk...

 

Im sorry that you are sick!!! What is going on with the ex now?? I thought things were going better??

[azgirl]

They were. WERE being the key word here. He told his mom last week that he was planning on going home with me still and we had a couple of good nights together last week. Sunday he got a bunch of bad news about his family and yesterday he just up and tells me that he is not changing his mind and that I have a "month or two" to get my own place.

 

Too much to get into right now. I'll be here at work tomorrow, so I will try to email more about it then.

 

I'll try to get AOL IM going, too.

 

Gotta go!