daisydukes Posted November 17, 2011 Posted November 17, 2011 I was out yesterday and we had a good time in the afternoon and then he said I gotta take my brother to his hockey game tonight so I'll need to drop you off. I didn't think much of it so as we were riding home he changed his story ( thinking I wouldn't catch on) and said I gotta drop my cousin off at work tonight. I let it go thinking well maybe he is doing both things dropping his brother off at the hockey game and then dropping his sister off at work later on. We stopped for gas and then this text message came through and he didn't know I was looking and I saw him text another girl saying I am on my way sweetie. I was mad and said your brother's hockey game or it is your sister at work I am confused what are you doing after you drop me off or are you hanging out with other girls??? He got mad and said what is your problem??? I said you better never ever cheat on me with another girl and he said I would never! I said you better not but obviously he is if he cannot get his stories right on what exactly he is doing or who he is doing for that matter.
Hanther Posted November 17, 2011 Posted November 17, 2011 You should have kept your mouth shut and then followed him after he dropped you off. Or asked him if you could come along, or something. But you blew your cover and now you are left wondering. Next time be smarter.
tbooie Posted November 17, 2011 Posted November 17, 2011 You clearly saw that text your eyes didn't decieve you, hes going to continue to lie and when you catch him in a lie hes going to continue lying. 9 out of 10 times guys who lie are going to point the blame on you saying why wouldn't I cheat or lie you haven't showed me love. Making you actually feel bad and think it is your fault. However there is no reason at all to lie and cheat when you are in a relationship either sit down like a real man and talk about it or be single. I just broke up with my boyfriend 2 days ago..I caught him texting another girl and making plans with her. When I confronted him he lied his way out of a lie saying he has mommy issues. He told me he was going to stop it all and we will start fresh and things will be perfect. I actually believed him untill he continues to text the girl. I packed my stuff up and left....sinice then he has texted me saying he wishes that I reconsider that things would be perfect and how much he misses me. You deserve a mature person who isn't immature and knows what he wants.
Author daisydukes Posted November 18, 2011 Author Posted November 18, 2011 That would of been fine and dandy if I could of pulled that one off and followed him but I live downtown and depend on the L since I live so close to one so that would of been tough. The pathetic part is his " date" isn't exactly all that and a bag of chips if you know what I mean. She is super short almost elfish and kinda nerdy looking. You would think if he wanted to " upgrade" he would of found somebody a little more attractive not that looks are everything but he thinks he is the best thing since sliced bread and he always thinks he is a big deal when reality ya he is good looking but he is no male model or anything he just thinks he is. I haven't spoken to him at all and I imagine he is probably fuming at me for even questioning him but sometimes you gotta lay all the cards out on the table right?? The way he changed his story twice really proves he was lying and obviously having a date and when i confronted him he sweated bullets and got upset. If his date wasn't a big deal and just friends he would of been upfront with me am I right? He wouldn't of changed his story twice thinking I must of been stupid and not caught on.
leedlee1 Posted November 18, 2011 Posted November 18, 2011 (edited) That would of been fine and dandy if I could of pulled that one off and followed him but I live downtown and depend on the L since I live so close to one so that would of been tough. The pathetic part is his " date" isn't exactly all that and a bag of chips if you know what I mean. She is super short almost elfish and kinda nerdy looking. You would think if he wanted to " upgrade" he would of found somebody a little more attractive not that looks are everything but he thinks he is the best thing since sliced bread and he always thinks he is a big deal when reality ya he is good looking but he is no male model or anything he just thinks he is. I haven't spoken to him at all and I imagine he is probably fuming at me for even questioning him but sometimes you gotta lay all the cards out on the table right?? The way he changed his story twice really proves he was lying and obviously having a date and when i confronted him he sweated bullets and got upset. If his date wasn't a big deal and just friends he would of been upfront with me am I right? He wouldn't of changed his story twice thinking I must of been stupid and not caught on. You know he's lying to you and also meeting up with other girls, You have no reason to ask us what to do, you already know. So what if he's fuming at you? You have done nothing wrong here and remember that, it's you who should be fuming and kick this guy to the kerb. Edited November 18, 2011 by leedlee1
Author daisydukes Posted November 18, 2011 Author Posted November 18, 2011 I am even more mad now! He told me his brother got fired and funny I saw his brother's facebook and he mentioned he was working today lie number 3. Ugh I hate him so bad right now!
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