chubachoop Posted May 24, 2004 Posted May 24, 2004 Im nowhere near ready to be friends with my ex boyfriend yet. All I feel when we contact each other is hurt and upset. We went four days with no contact and each day got easier. Then because he text me on Saturday i am miserable again. Basically he bought two tickets to a music festival this weekend and he said he doesnt want to go with anyone but me and he wont be able to sell them because the festival isnt sold out yet. I really dont want to go with him but I feel guilty for not going. I cant offer to pay for the tickets because I cant afford it but I cant think of anything worse than going with him and pretending to be happy that we are just friends. I feel moody with himm and let down cause I feel its his fault we cant be together anymore..... what should i do? its also his birthday this week so I feel doubly guilty. Should I just go and then continue no contact after? The last time I saw him he was my boyfriend. Is it really mean of me to not go and waste like 100 pound of his money seeing as I was the one that broke up with him?.....
bluechocolate Posted May 24, 2004 Posted May 24, 2004 If no contact is working for you then by all means keep it up. You don't have to be friends, especially in the immediate aftermath of a break up. I've never understood that one. If you broke it off then his intentions of maintaining contact are in dispute. He may just wish to keep up the contact with the hope of a reconciliation. He's doing himself a disservice & you would be contributing to that if it is your intention not to rekindle this relationship. If the tickets were bought as a gift then you have no obligation to pay him for them. So what if he doesn't want to go with anyone else? That is his problem, not yours. If the tickets were bought with the understanding that you would be paying your way, then yes, you owe him the money.
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