nes9 Posted November 17, 2011 Posted November 17, 2011 I've been lamenting over this one girl that it appears things will most likely not work out between us. I was out at a restaurant today with a couple of my friends and the waitress and I were flirting a bit. My buddy said, "hey man she's into you, get her number." I immediately started talking myself out of it in my head giving myself reasons as to why I shouldn't do it or wait til next time I'm at the restaurant etc. etc. Then it hit me that I have been being a huge pussy in these situations and need to act NOW. As we were leaving I went up to the waitress and asked where she was from, a bit of small talk and then asked for her number so I could take her out to dinner sometime. She obliged and wrote down her name and number for me. I'm not even necessarily interested in this girl, but just getting the confidence to finally act in these types of situations is refreshing after so many years of taking the easy way out and giving yourself bs excuses. Even though I'm not particularly interested, I am still getting myself over a current girl, and I think I will call this new girl and try to set up a date and at least work on my game and give her a chance. I got the number on Wednesday so when do you recommend I call her to set up a date? And any ideas for dates? The restaurant route gets expensive..... but I'll do it if I gotta.
Pasttense Posted November 17, 2011 Posted November 17, 2011 If you wait too long she may forget who you are, so I would do it soon. Talk to her and find out what she likes--movies, car races, concerts, dancing, lectures, art museums...
YaOldBuckaroo Posted November 17, 2011 Posted November 17, 2011 Hey man, Good for you! I'd set one up this Friday, when she's likely to have no work the following day. Cheers, Max
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