Brit456k Posted November 17, 2011 Posted November 17, 2011 Me and my boyfriend of 3 years have been on and off for 2 years. Our first year together was not bad. We have been together for over a month now and we have not fought once. Which is very good considering everyday before our big break we would fight. He was seeing this other girl for about a month while we werent together, but he would text me after he would leave her house saying, "I'm leaving her house now, going to bed. Goodnight". Which was weird to me, but whatever. Well, the thing is, he would text me very late at night. Around 11 or 12 at night.... he works from 7am-7pm 6 days a week and sometimes he will have to take tools to another company 2 hours away so he does lots of overtime (more hours gone) but yet he would go to sleep late just to see her. Now we are back together and he goes to bed at like 8-9 at night. Never wants to stay up with me and claims he is very tired. Why do I feel second best? Maybe because someone new is more interesting to spend more time with? I just don't get it. Another thing is, I have changed a lot and I don't nag or make big deals out of everything so when I do stand up for myself he says "Oh now thats the girl I know......" in a sarcastic rude way, like I am not supposed to defend myself. I don't speak up because I don't want to start a fight. Could be about something I don't like that he does. Maybe I should just accept me changing instead of trying to change him. I just feel like he's playing a game with me or if we do fight it will be my fault and back to my old ways but its a legit confrontation. something that needs to be talked about. I hope that makes sense. Thanks...
nu464 Posted November 18, 2011 Posted November 18, 2011 Am I second best to him? If a guy was dating me for about 1 or 2 months not exclusively. Then he tells me that he got back together with his ex BUT their relationship is "Laid back" so me being the idoit that i am because I liked him so continued to date him..then a month later he breaks if off with me tells me that he wants to get serious with his ex and that he feels bad. One week later after his ex is treating him like crap he breaks up with her then wants me back. He left for bootcamp, he called me and stuff...now we're together. But do you think I'm second best?? If he liked me so much he wouldnt have needed to go back to his ex right?? The guy is 18 and so am I. 3 years ago Additional Details And he might have been dating another aswell. But he says he was never with her, that she's crazy. He said he doesnt want her and that he broke off all contact with her
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