ls32ssibm Posted November 17, 2011 Posted November 17, 2011 So anyway, I've been flirting with this barista (her family owns the coffee shop). Eventually, I got the courage to ask her out. She said yes, and suggested we get a drink after she gets off work at 5:30. She suggested a place a block from the shop. I gave her my number also before I left. So, I show up at 5:28ish, and stay until 6:30. She never shows. I leave, and walk by the coffee shop - it's closed with all the lights off. Now, she has my number, I don't have hers, and I'm confused. Why would she do all that if she wasn't interested? Why couldn't she just say "I have a boyfriend", "I don't date customers", etc. Also, why would she do it? It was in person at her family's shop - it isn't like it was an online date stand-up. Maybe she gets off on it? Anyway, I pretty much acceptance the situation, but should I show up at the shop again or no?
Author ls32ssibm Posted November 17, 2011 Author Posted November 17, 2011 Bump. Not sure if I should stop in tomorrow and ask her what happened or forget about her.
Lobouspo Posted November 17, 2011 Posted November 17, 2011 Unfortunately this kind of thing is not uncommon these days. If you like that establishment for the product and not necessarily just her, by all means go back but dont ask what happened. Any excuse will be lame and insulting
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