chados Posted November 17, 2011 Posted November 17, 2011 she dumped me, NC 3 weeks, she's texted me twice and asked me about everything, said she was curious. she probably thinks that i might be dating, because a girl is writing to me on FB. and now she's stalking me, according to people i know she's checking up everything i do. should i stick to NC or ask her out for a coffee?,
mike588 Posted November 17, 2011 Posted November 17, 2011 she dumped me, NC 3 weeks, she's texted me twice and asked me about everything, said she was curious. she probably thinks that i might be dating, because a girl is writing to me on FB. and now she's stalking me, according to people i know she's checking up everything i do. should i stick to NC or ask her out for a coffee?, Stick with N.C., remember she dumped you. You owe her nothing,, if she dumped you for someone else she may wanna keep you as a fall back guy or having second thoughts about dumping you. You have the power now,,, if you want her back ignore her for awhile and judge her reaction,,, be mysterious, don't text her back the second she contacts you.
Author chados Posted November 17, 2011 Author Posted November 17, 2011 Stick with N.C., remember she dumped you. You owe her nothing,, if she dumped you for someone else she may wanna keep you as a fall back guy or having second thoughts about dumping you. You have the power now,,, if you want her back ignore her for awhile and judge her reaction,,, be mysterious, don't text her back the second she contacts you. its hard to judge her reaction since i the only way i talk to her is by sms. she didn't dump me for someone else. we had a talk about how i "didn't" care about her. and i told her that i felt the same about her. its just a big misunderstanding, everything was good for a few days until she went back to school for 1,5 week. and of course i started to push her away by acting needy told her i loved her every single minute. we only talked by phone. i really messed up i know she wants to be with me, but not the man i am now. and this is not the man i want to be either, im acting insecure and needy, a man who has lost confidence, attractive? nope. i know what has to be done i just got to find a way to prove it . advice?
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