w0nderwoman Posted November 19, 2011 Posted November 19, 2011 Even girls I spent very little time with, few months, I still remember them even though I ended it. I don't forget. I'll never forget my recent g/f of just one year together even though she screwed me over I still have feelings for her.I'm not in love with her anymore but I do care about her. No way. I'm still cut up about her bigstyle and she left me for my mate without even telling me! No, it's not easy and it can be horrible depending upon the circumstances. It can feel like you've had a bad and unplanned rebirth and you're trying to get on with your life dragging an invisible placenta that you sometimes step on. It takes a long time sometimes to tear off that bag and free yourself--but if it was good and there was great high hope, there is still a hole. To delve in to what Chelsea said a bit....yeah they might still care but it will always varies. Based on their actions from the break up till now you can judge using your own values, intelligence and other fancy stuff how much they probably care about you. Ex's before this most recent one, probably want to rate it as a 2/10 on the care level? Then again they didn't mean really too much compared to this last one. It is not your choice to forget. You will always remember no matter what happened.
flitzanu Posted November 21, 2011 Posted November 21, 2011 i asked this because i recently broke up with my bF about 2 weeks ago. we were together for 11 years. He is now having a long distance relationship with my ex bestfriend, we still see each other almost everyday but we don't actually talk. he is very distant. I dont know what's going on in his mind. I dont know if he still loves me.. and i dont know how to find out. sorry, the way this is worded sounds like YOU broke up with him. either way, whether or not he still loves you, is still irrelevant whether he dumped you or you him, he is with someone else. he doesn't want to be with you, love is not the issue.
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