the wizard Posted November 16, 2011 Posted November 16, 2011 In comparison to foreign women, why do American seem so loose/easy? Been dating a girl who grew up in Colombia. She's pretty, not in the best shape but frequents the gym and has lost 31 lbs since I met her, with another 31 to go. She's smart, and has only been with one guy sexually who was her ex of 5 years. When we have sex, you'd swear she was a pornstar. My sexual needs are SATISFIED. The crazy part about it is she isn't trashy about it at all. She even asked me why American women were so easy and free spirited about their bodies. She said most of her friends that grew up in the US are really slutty and the ones who didn't are very conservative. This has been an ongoing trend I've noticed. Most foreign women I know fit my description of an ideal mate. Passionate, classy, smart, exotic. American women, not all but most, they're just so out there with it its nasty. Has any other men on these boards noticed that lately?
jobaba Posted November 16, 2011 Posted November 16, 2011 In comparison to foreign women, why do American seem so loose/easy? Been dating a girl who grew up in Colombia. She's pretty, not in the best shape but frequents the gym and has lost 31 lbs since I met her, with another 31 to go. She's smart, and has only been with one guy sexually who was her ex of 5 years. When we have sex, you'd swear she was a pornstar. My sexual needs are SATISFIED. The crazy part about it is she isn't trashy about it at all. She even asked me why American women were so easy and free spirited about their bodies. She said most of her friends that grew up in the US are really slutty and the ones who didn't are very conservative. This has been an ongoing trend I've noticed. Most foreign women I know fit my description of an ideal mate. Passionate, classy, smart, exotic. American women, not all but most, they're just so out there with it its nasty. Has any other men on these boards noticed that lately? I think it's the other way around. Foreign women are less picky in general. First of all, some of them come from poor countries where the average male height is like 5'5". You are not going to require a 6 foot tall handsome white boy with a Masters degree when that is the case. And in general, foreign white women are more open to dating minorities. I have heard this many times.
Mme. Chaucer Posted November 16, 2011 Posted November 16, 2011 Most foreign women I know fit my description of an ideal mate. Passionate, classy, smart, exotic. Well, if "most" foreign women fit your description of an "ideal mate," then you have billions of people to select from. Why concern yourself with American women at all? You need to have some filtering system; at least this removes about 158,745,538 people from your potential dating pool. Are "most" foreign women also able to deal with your spectacular handsomeness?
Author the wizard Posted November 16, 2011 Author Posted November 16, 2011 I think it's the other way around. Foreign women are less picky in general. First of all, some of them come from poor countries where the average male height is like 5'5". You are not going to require a 6 foot tall handsome white boy with a Masters degree when that is the case. And in general, foreign white women are more open to dating minorities. I have heard this many times. Eh not really. More often than not, foreign women don't date minorities. Also, these foreign women from South America are pickier. They simply look at the American women out here and shake their head.
norajane Posted November 16, 2011 Posted November 16, 2011 Well, there's the door. Feel free to leave the United States if you don't like it here.
phillyfan Posted November 16, 2011 Posted November 16, 2011 I think it's the other way around. Foreign women are less picky in general. First of all, some of them come from poor countries where the average male height is like 5'5". You are not going to require a 6 foot tall handsome white boy with a Masters degree when that is the case. And in general, foreign white women are more open to dating minorities. I have heard this many times. Dude I tryed listin all the countries in the world n gave up LOL theres too many. Wat I am sayin is callin evry woman outside America 'foriegn' then makin statements like tht dont make us Americans look 2 smart. U aint makin us look 2 cleva dude. Evn I can c tht and I aint even tht smart
grkBoy Posted November 16, 2011 Posted November 16, 2011 I dunno. It's hit or miss with foreign women. My fiance is actually from Slovakia (she's been here 12 years). She's very European in her mannerisms and behavior, and isn't carrying the insanity I've seen in too many American women. I've had colleagues go to Europe hoping to meet Ms Right, but found the women they met also had "issues" or they would not move to the US unless the guy is filthy rich, but would be fine if the guy moved to her country. I won't jump on the "American women suck" bandwagon, because I don't buy into the myths some believe that South America and the Eastern Bloc are all loaded with fashion models who won't mess with "bad boys" and will date bland looking average joes or ugly guys. I will say though the "spoiled brat" upbringing of children in America is part of why men and women are so screwed up when it comes to love.
stillafool Posted November 16, 2011 Posted November 16, 2011 Ladies, lets not feed this thread but leave them to their bitterness.
norajane Posted November 16, 2011 Posted November 16, 2011 Ladies, lets not feed this thread but leave them to their bitterness. They're obviously having trouble getting any American women to go out on dates with them, so I think it's a GREAT idea for them to move away and try their luck with all those "foreign" women.
grkBoy Posted November 16, 2011 Posted November 16, 2011 In Eastern Europe from what i see it's like this : 1 - lots of petite women, simply there wasn't enough food when they grew up and some parts of the countries here still have this problem I've seen this too. It's funny how many Eastern Europeans have skinny bodies, but they eat horribly...especially in areas like Poland, Germany, the Czech Republic, Hungary, and Slovakia. Loads of fried food. I bought two cookbooks in English when I was in Slovakia. I was excited to learn the cuisine, but most of it involves pork, sausage, frying, etc. I guess those Communist years kept them thin. Now we're seeing the American thinking move in. People are being overworked as opposed to having balanced lives, and all the fast food corporations are moving in and fattening up Europe. It's a shame. 2 - girls from ex-commie countries prefer a more ... feminine man over a brute of a man, despite the fact that most countries with weak economic situations have women preferring the brute guy (big strong guy is what i mean) That isn't entirely true. Most of the European women I've met were only into "girly men" mainly because they were with a "masculine man" and hated it...generally because Mr Masculine was also arrogant, stubborn, controlling, and at times cold, childish, or cruel. Maybe it's changing, but the menfolk in many of those countries are either the "blue collar" guys who are the rugged masculine males, or the more "girly men" are the college-educated higher earners in suits. Even here in America many of the "masculine" men who came from Europe are generally working blue collar jobs. Out in Europe, you don't really see the "narcissistic yuppie alpha male" who works out like crazy, makes big money, and will kill all in his path to get ahead. The women who chase "masculine" and "money" tend to end up with professional sports players or trust fund babies. 3 - many women are materialistas. I hate to say this but i know of many cases ( i have divorce lawyers in the family) where a woman would marry into a family, get herself setup, know the law ... and initiate divorce to clean up. It's not the norm, but it's higher than it should be. This ties a bit into the economic situation. Many East European girls have a reputation for materialistas in western europe too, the women there absolutely can't stand a pretty East European girl. That's only a fraction of it all. In my travels, I've seen the "wannabe models" who chase wealth, are spoiled, and are all about looking hot. That's one part of the women. The rest are the "plain Janes" or "average women" that most men don't drool over, but I'm sure most "nice guys" here would love to get a date with them. The "princesses" like you mentioned are only a part of the female population, and they live up to that reputation. Often I'll see them chase older men and anyone who looks like they make money. The ones you really have to watch out for are the ones who obviously want to marry an American man to milk him for his net worth. That exists here though. It's like when I see guys complain how all the educated career-minded women are "plain", "ugly", or "average"...but all the "hot women" are working jobs meant for a teenager and literally just want a man to take care of them in life. 4 - few fat girls, but that's because of lack of food again. Yeah...there's some fat women. I actually notice how most men and women seem to get fatter as they get older. There's fat people everywhere though.
stillafool Posted November 16, 2011 Posted November 16, 2011 They're obviously having trouble getting any American women to go out on dates with them, so I think it's a GREAT idea for them to move away and try their luck with all those "foreign" women. Me too Norajane. I don't know why they aren't on their way right now.
Mme. Chaucer Posted November 16, 2011 Posted November 16, 2011 Dude I tryed listin all the countries in the world n gave up LOL theres too many. Wat I am sayin is callin evry woman outside America 'foriegn' then makin statements like tht dont make us Americans look 2 smart. U aint makin us look 2 cleva dude. Evn I can c tht and I aint even tht smart Props to phillyfan! I think I am going to start a group called "phillyfanfans." No joke - please never stop posting here. There is a real need for a normal, humous voice of reason from young (I'm assuming you are young - ish) men here on our beloved LoveShack.
Elysian Powder Posted November 16, 2011 Posted November 16, 2011 In comparison to foreign women, why do American seem so loose/easy? Been dating a girl who grew up in Colombia. She's pretty, not in the best shape but frequents the gym and has lost 31 lbs since I met her, with another 31 to go. She's smart, and has only been with one guy sexually who was her ex of 5 years. When we have sex, you'd swear she was a pornstar. My sexual needs are SATISFIED. The crazy part about it is she isn't trashy about it at all. She even asked me why American women were so easy and free spirited about their bodies. She said most of her friends that grew up in the US are really slutty and the ones who didn't are very conservative. This has been an ongoing trend I've noticed. Most foreign women I know fit my description of an ideal mate. Passionate, classy, smart, exotic. American women, not all but most, they're just so out there with it its nasty. Has any other men on these boards noticed that lately? European women are as loose as American women. They have a way with keeping with the appearances of being classy, selective, and guarded. Most are going to put out even if they have long-term boyfriends if you are good-looking or rich enough. Don't forget that the euros colonized the states. Their mating habits and the women don't disparate that much from what we have in the states. True, they're usually more attractive than American women a persistence that I blame on the low-quality of the food in the states. Here, women gotta watch what they eat lest they become the embodiment of land whales. European women are blatant with their intentions. They clear all the doubt in the air. They know it to be a FWB's arrangement and won't use it to trap you in a relationship. They are very sexually liberal. Their expectations on what a man should look like to have sex with them aren't set in stone like in North America. The women don't demand a 6 feet tall frame to be attracted to the guy and many of the women who don't type down a list of demands for sex to happen are attractive. The divorce laws aren't as heavy in the main European Countries, so if you want something serious with women, move to the Old World. I especially love to get lost in Stockholm and to look around, to a multitude of young, very hot women who know how to dress and how to be feminine. Kinda sucks to be from the land of the whale, I mean Oprah, LOL!
Elysian Powder Posted November 17, 2011 Posted November 17, 2011 Me too Norajane. I don't know why they aren't on their way right now. The Matriarchy doesn't let it's slave-workers depart from the land, LOL! http://www.usembassy.org.uk/americanservices/?p=544
FitChick Posted November 17, 2011 Posted November 17, 2011 Are Welsh women exotic enough for the OP? The height of femininity and daintiness. Who could resist their obvious charms?
SteveC80 Posted November 17, 2011 Posted November 17, 2011 Only plcae outside of the US ive been to is Canda,the women there are so much mroe appraochable and dont have the entitlement commplex and bitch shield most women in the US do
El Brujo Posted November 17, 2011 Posted November 17, 2011 I will say though the "spoiled brat" upbringing of children in America is part of why men and women are so screwed up when it comes to love. AMEN, brother!!!
Citizen Erased Posted November 17, 2011 Posted November 17, 2011 I hate this, stereotypes depending on country. Trust me, there is pretty much every culture available in Sydney and they all have the bitches, the money hungry users, the nice, the mean, the poor, the rich, the honest, the liars, the prudes, the sluts etc etc. And I don't doubt that you will find that everywhere. It's so damn ignorant. Just cos you meet one person from Columbia and they're sweet as pie, doesn't mean everyone is.
El Brujo Posted November 17, 2011 Posted November 17, 2011 IME many foreign men and women act so clueless and slow witted! Especially many from Scandinavia and the Slavic countries. There are some witty ones, but man are a lot of the others dense. OTOH if Aussie women are as insensitive as the men (I'm talking white ones, not Aborigines), I want to make sure to stay far, far away from them. BTW did any of you do a web search about the towns in Thailand that have thousands of expat American men who were too wimpy for American women?
sweetjasmine Posted November 17, 2011 Posted November 17, 2011 I won't jump on the "American women suck" bandwagon, because I don't buy into the myths some believe that South America and the Eastern Bloc are all loaded with fashion models who won't mess with "bad boys" and will date bland looking average joes or ugly guys. As a South American woman who has lived in the US for most of my life, I get a good laugh every time someone recites those myths as if they were gospel. If those guys got a chance to spend some time with my mother and my family members who still live in South America, they'd get quite the rude awakening!
aj22one Posted November 17, 2011 Posted November 17, 2011 My gf is Pakistani, although born in the United States (so a little foreign, a little American). I think she's awesome. But everyone's gotta do what they gotta do, if you like American women good for you, if you don't good for you too.
Easyguy14 Posted November 17, 2011 Posted November 17, 2011 I think it's the other way around. Foreign women are less picky in general. First of all, some of them come from poor countries where the average male height is like 5'5". You are not going to require a 6 foot tall handsome white boy with a Masters degree when that is the case. And in general, foreign white women are more open to dating minorities. I have heard this many times. I second this statement. I been to brazil and had 2 women pretty easily. I told them what I do for a living and I was in quickly. I went to dominican replublics and it was the same thing. just my american accent got them. I think its that foreign women portray a more relaxed nature opposed to the american women so the op is getting this interpretation twisted.
kvinna Posted November 17, 2011 Posted November 17, 2011 I work in an artistic industry that attracts many foreigners, especially Europeans. I can't say I know a single non-American woman who is dating, or interested in dating an American man. I think my own parents, who immigrated here, would be pretty wary of me dating someone who isn't at least first- or second-gen. But luckily I don't make silly judgements about people based on nationality.
kvinna Posted November 17, 2011 Posted November 17, 2011 I second this statement. I been to brazil and had 2 women pretty easily. I told them what I do for a living and I was in quickly. I went to dominican replublics and it was the same thing. just my american accent got them. I think its that foreign women portray a more relaxed nature opposed to the american women so the op is getting this interpretation twisted. In some parts of the world it's still such that all they need to know is that you're an American and you're king/queen. I think some people are mistaking that as those women's genuine personalities.
Wolf18 Posted November 17, 2011 Posted November 17, 2011 I've been to other countries and have to say, women were much more open to me (And men in general) than they are in America. It's night and day really. The simpler the lifestyle, the simpler it is to date. Let's see how far a woman demanding a guy with a luxury car, 6'5, muscular and 6 figure job gets in rural Ukraine or Argentina. American women: mediocre looks, supermodel attitudes.
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