netchannels Posted November 16, 2011 Posted November 16, 2011 I know this is a little long but please read I can use some advice So there is this girl we have been friends for a 7 months now, we have been flirting intensely for the past 6 months. When we started she got out of her first serious relationship. But the time we were flirting she was still sleeping with her ex. So one day when I was drunk she questions me for an hour of what I thought of her and I kept avoiding the question. Few weeks later we sat down lunch and she told me her ex does not like it we hang out. I ask her saying so you don't want to hang out? She say no I wanna hang out with you, but there is attraction between us and since we work together we can mix biz and pleasure and I say I agree. Than we go back to very phycial flirting. LAter I found out the night before she called my friend and questioned him for a hour if I liked her, he said "if he did, he would have told me something".Than for the next 2 months we hang out flirting keeps increasing and her ex moves to a diff country. So after all that one day over dinner she say's a guy and girl cannot be just friends. I respond saying not true they can, she respond saying not true, but I am not saying this in our case. and she tries to convince me for an hour. So 2 days later I say about girl I like with out telling the girls name and she say" your a creep", and than asks me is that girl me, and I deny it. Now recently she starts telling me how I am such a nice guy and how she thinks I am hot. Things got even interesting when 2 weeks ago she was cold I grab her palm and try to keep her finger warm. She looks right into my eyes and say "If we both are single when we are 40 do you wanna have kids together?" I said sure. She went for the next hour talking about how we should raise our kids, and minor details. So a weeks ago we were at the mall and she takes me into a jewelry store and tells me you have to get me a engagement ring like this. So right after we sit down fro dinner and I ask her generally not pertaining to our situation but generally, what her parent thought about race when it came to the guy she marry's, now she gets serious and say's "generally they would not like it but if we get married they would be okay, because your are good looking,smart and accomplished". So after all this I am convinced this girl is thinking of something serious with me. Few weeks ago my friend said we look together and she responded by saying "aw... thanks". She also says that people think we are dating because of how much we hang out, and she also implies that we look good together So yesterday I start telling her how beautiful she looks and she say I have seen flirts like you before. Than I start telling descibing her looks and she keeps giggling and calls me a flirt. Than in a semi-joking way I tell her I like her, and she is like if I take it seriously you going to say I was joking, and say "got you". She is like if thought you were serious I would say we need to talk. I tried to convince her for the next hour, that it was not a joke. During the time I got reaction from yes, no and maybe. She tells me repeatedly stop trying to put me in the defensive. I tell her what if do like you she say's usually I would be able to tell if a guy likes me but your a flirt so I can't be sure. So towards the end after I hug her, I kiss her on the check and she starts blushing and say stop trying to intimidate me you know I am shy. Towards the end as I walked away I say think about I could be serious. You got to realize this entire time we lock arms and walk sometime time for a few second even hold hands, she would lean on me and sleep, we feed each other food. A week ago on the I pod a song comes on about a guy having a crush on his friend, she looks at me and tells by your body language I can say you like this song. I am so lost
InJest Posted November 16, 2011 Posted November 16, 2011 I read the title and half of the first sentence. Here is my advice: Step 1: Grow balls. Step 2: Kiss her. Step 3a: Repeat step 2. Step 3b: Drop her like a hot rock and cut all contact with her. Good luck, but it sounds like you're dead in the water.
Author netchannels Posted November 16, 2011 Author Posted November 16, 2011 I read the title and half of the first sentence. Here is my advice: Step 1: Grow balls. Step 2: Kiss her. Step 3a: Repeat step 2. Step 3b: Drop her like a hot rock and cut all contact with her. Good luck, but it sounds like you're dead in the water. I would suggest you read the entire post. The title and sentence is not enough draw a conclusion
Emilia Posted November 17, 2011 Posted November 17, 2011 I would suggest you read the entire post. The title and sentence is not enough draw a conclusion InJest is correct
Keridan Posted November 17, 2011 Posted November 17, 2011 Ya, you just need to get it together and kiss her. No more games trying to be sure how she feels and stuff. Just take the risk and kiss her. Then ask for a date.
jobaba Posted November 17, 2011 Posted November 17, 2011 I read the title and half of the first sentence. Here is my advice: Step 1: Grow balls. Step 2: Kiss her. Step 3a: Repeat step 2. Step 3b: Drop her like a hot rock and cut all contact with her. Good luck, but it sounds like you're dead in the water. He's right.
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