keepdancin Posted November 16, 2011 Posted November 16, 2011 I was feeling good tonight and thought about making a profile, maybe find someone to help pass the time. Now, I am feeling very sad. He's been there for over a month (less than a month and a half after we broke up, you can search with the join time in the last month and he didn't come up) and his profile is very detailed, lots of writing, nice pics. He's clearly spent a lot of time on making it nice. He was online today. It wouldn't hurt so much if he swore up and down that he had no interest in dating or getting into any relationships, that this BU was all about him wanting to be alone. He used his actual full name too... I also like how his main profile pic is from the trip we took when he proposed to me. I just feel sick and wish I could do something. I had been hoping for reconciliation. Has anyone else had this experience? Please tell me it actually works in my favor. I would maybe feel like it was nothing if he hadn't clearly spent so much time on it. 8 year relationship, only broken up for two and a half months.
Sam_Smith Posted November 16, 2011 Posted November 16, 2011 I know it's hard to see him move on so quickly. It must hurt like nothing else. There's only one thing you can do now, though, which is to smile and move on. I don't know if you guys stay in touch very much, probably not, but just show him that you're able to enjoy yourself. It's a great life after all! Sam
Author keepdancin Posted November 16, 2011 Author Posted November 16, 2011 He's not with you; he doesn't owe you anything. He can sleep with anyone who wants and do whatever he wants and bang anyone he finds hot. He owes you nothing. You are his EX. He probably promised you that cause he knew you would be all psychotic if he went and dated someone else, which you are doing just now. He is free to do as he wants. Get your own life and get over with it. You are delusional if you think it is "working in your favor". He doesn't want you. He wants other women obviously. Don't be so desperate and hope for reconciliation... lol. He probably had sex with other women by now. Wow. Who pissed in your Cheerios?
Sweets22 Posted November 16, 2011 Posted November 16, 2011 If its any consolation, I do this every time I go thru a split. Its a huge distraction and an ego boost, and sometimes even the dumper needs to feel good about himself to get out of his slump.
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