Snarks025 Posted November 16, 2011 Posted November 16, 2011 I am going out on a third date with a woman I really like who I met on match.com. So far we have just been out to dinner, but I have a great date planned for this Saturday. On our last date, we were exchanging embarrassing family stories and I told her that on Christmas my family wears matching Christmas pajamas. We had a good laugh about it, and I was thinking about buying her an inexpensive pair of Christmas pajamas as a joke. I know it's not a great idea to start buying gifts right off the bat, as it could set a bad precedence. But, its about $20 and I think it could be something to show her that I am different than most guys. Good idea, or should I hold off and see how things go?
Art_Critic Posted November 16, 2011 Posted November 16, 2011 IMO it is too much.. for 2 reasons. PJ's are more personal of a purchase that 3 dates allows.. and it would also send the message that you are already looking for a commitment.. a bit too early.. Why not just give her some flowers instead ?
unknownsources Posted November 16, 2011 Posted November 16, 2011 I am going out on a third date with a woman I really like who I met on match.com. So far we have just been out to dinner, but I have a great date planned for this Saturday. On our last date, we were exchanging embarrassing family stories and I told her that on Christmas my family wears matching Christmas pajamas. We had a good laugh about it, and I was thinking about buying her an inexpensive pair of Christmas pajamas as a joke. I know it's not a great idea to start buying gifts right off the bat, as it could set a bad precedence. But, its about $20 and I think it could be something to show her that I am different than most guys. Good idea, or should I hold off and see how things go? Well, I could be wrong (and it totally depends on how she feels about you) but that may be seen as "moving too fast". Saying as it's a family tradition, and you're giving her something that may seem like you're inviting her into that tradition, it might be perceived as a "join the family!" kinda thing. That's just my opinion though. Like I said, it depends on how well things are going.
dasein Posted November 16, 2011 Posted November 16, 2011 Agree with others, a little too fast. That would be something good for next year.
Author Snarks025 Posted November 16, 2011 Author Posted November 16, 2011 Makes sense, ill hold off.....I can see how it could be misconstrued.
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