Lowib Posted November 16, 2011 Posted November 16, 2011 Here is my story: I moved to a small town to be closer to my family. I instantly met this beautiful young girl who I fell in love with. When we met she was 5 months pregnant. We raised a beautiful girl together right up until she was one years old. She asked me to be her daughters father which I gladly accepted. When the relationship began it was very hot and heavy and we moved very quickly. She got very obsessive and very jealous. She would always accused me of leaving her for someone else. But, I would always reconfirm that I loved her and would never hurt someone in that way. Well, the pressure from her continued, in June she wanted to move in. I wasn't quite ready and I think it was because she was always pressuring me to be with her 24/7. I couldn't keep up and she felt I was neglecting her. She started talking to an old friend who just got out of a relationship. She mentioned this guy to me before and talked about how he had a nice truck, good job, and lots of money saved up and she couldn't believe he got dumped. Well, in August she left me to start seeing this guy. It was about a week later and she contacted me begging to get back together. I had no idea about the other guy so I took her back. We decided we needed to get away after being so swamped with raising a young girl together. We left for Italy. We had a great time. But, shortly after that she dumped me again. Then a month later, i got one more call, saying she messed up and missed me so much. So, again we tried. It lasted a week, and she left me again. Each time so she could be alone and focus on school. I found out she had been going back and forth between me and this other guy. They are now in a committed relationship, which was formed while she was still dating me. I called her out on it, and she told me "yah i lied about it, but contact me again and I'll call the cops. So, yah I haven't contacted her. I haven't seen my daughter and I can't sleep or eat. She just turned a switch and became a different person. I'm 25, she is 20, so I know she is still young....but I can't help feel 2nd best, know this new guy is holding her each and every night. Anyone been through something like this?
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