jenjen83 Posted November 15, 2011 Posted November 15, 2011 Me and my-ex are on a forum together. We split up in June and although it was a hard break-up for me I was starting to get it together. I don't know why but for some reason today I decided to hack his private messages...his password was very obvious. I feel so guilty for doing this to him especially as he wished me happy birthday on the same forum last week. I didn't find too much of interest apart from some messages he had exchanged about me with someone just after we split. He told her the spark between me and him wasn't there but that we had had fun together. He also said ''who knows, maybe this'll be one I let slip away'' and that he probably tried to let me down too gently. I don't even know what advice I want....I just feel so sad and guilty and needed to get it out.
nu464 Posted November 15, 2011 Posted November 15, 2011 Me and my-ex are on a forum together. We split up in June and although it was a hard break-up for me I was starting to get it together. I don't know why but for some reason today I decided to hack his private messages...his password was very obvious. I feel so guilty for doing this to him especially as he wished me happy birthday on the same forum last week. I didn't find too much of interest apart from some messages he had exchanged about me with someone just after we split. He told her the spark between me and him wasn't there but that we had had fun together. He also said ''who knows, maybe this'll be one I let slip away'' and that he probably tried to let me down too gently. I don't even know what advice I want....I just feel so sad and guilty and needed to get it out. I think both of you need to talk so that both of you will clear thing now.If there's any problem between you two..This will help both of you..to be peace minded also in heart..
Author jenjen83 Posted November 15, 2011 Author Posted November 15, 2011 I don't think there is anything to talk about?
sadbh Posted November 15, 2011 Posted November 15, 2011 Whats done is done. Obviously you know now that this was a bad decision and you shouldn't do it again. All you've done is dig up the past and its clearly just set you back if you felt like you were moving on before this happened. I agree that there is nothing to discuss with your ex. You're just going to have to deal with the sadness and guilt this has caused you and keep moving forward. You made a mistake, all you can do is learn from it.
SincereOnlineGuy Posted November 16, 2011 Posted November 16, 2011 He told her the spark between me and him wasn't there but that we had had fun together. He also said ''who knows, maybe this'll be one I let slip away'' and that he probably tried to let me down too gently. I don't even know what advice I want....I just feel so sad and guilty and needed to get it out. This is actually a relatively ringing endorsement for you, from a person who just broke up with you. From that I hope you will derive considerable social confidence as you press on into your future. Aspire to BE that "one he let slip away"... as you march toward your destiny with somebody else.
Author jenjen83 Posted November 16, 2011 Author Posted November 16, 2011 Thanks SOG...good advice. I know he has only ever spoken well of me so I guess that should be a comfort.
Author jenjen83 Posted November 16, 2011 Author Posted November 16, 2011 I still have feelings for him....not sure if I want him back. I think I have built him up too much in my head.
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