smokey bear Posted November 15, 2011 Posted November 15, 2011 Last time i saw him was last week, it was our first catch up in months, ended on a good note, he doesnt want a relationship right now, i said ok, he says is that u fell out with me now. I said no, we get on too well to fall out. NC for 1 week, we have been in NC for 3 months, broken a couple times. I start NC again, keep myself busy, been feeling great this week. Just by chance i saw him in the street, had to walk around his car to get to mine. I just gave a small smile, jumped in car and drove off. He txts.... I told u you had fell out with me!!!! me (30 mins later) i havent fell out with you x him...not heard from you, thats the first time ive saw you x me...just been really busy x him... olk him again....ok x me...x Why do they even bother, its only been a week, not even.... and im getting stick for not being in his life????????????? Honestly im at the point of no longer caring, if he's angry because he hasnt seen me in a week he needs to have a good look inside his head.
ChelseaLS Posted November 15, 2011 Posted November 15, 2011 Last time i saw him was last week, it was our first catch up in months, ended on a good note, he doesnt want a relationship right now, i said ok, he says is that u fell out with me now. I said no, we get on too well to fall out. NC for 1 week, we have been in NC for 3 months, broken a couple times. I start NC again, keep myself busy, been feeling great this week. Just by chance i saw him in the street, had to walk around his car to get to mine. I just gave a small smile, jumped in car and drove off. He txts.... I told u you had fell out with me!!!! me (30 mins later) i havent fell out with you x him...not heard from you, thats the first time ive saw you x me...just been really busy x him... olk him again....ok x me...x Why do they even bother, its only been a week, not even.... and im getting stick for not being in his life????????????? Honestly im at the point of no longer caring, if he's angry because he hasnt seen me in a week he needs to have a good look inside his head. Isn't it fair to say that he is confused and frustrated, just as you were, when you bailed on him to go play?
Author smokey bear Posted November 15, 2011 Author Posted November 15, 2011 lol, i was hoping you would post, Touche!!!! lol i would honestly like to hear your opinion on this though, without reference to my past, i like the way you think xx p.s i know all the move on, nc stuff x just looking for an outsiders take on his actions xx
ChelseaLS Posted November 15, 2011 Posted November 15, 2011 lol, i was hoping you would post, Touche!!!! lol i would honestly like to hear your opinion on this though, without reference to my past, i like the way you think xx p.s i know all the move on, nc stuff x just looking for an outsiders take on his actions xx I don't think he is angry... I think it's more hurt. I think he may have been hoping to hear from you before this encounter and because he didn't, and then still nothing after the encounter he was probably worried that ya, you did move on. Thats how I read it.
Author smokey bear Posted November 16, 2011 Author Posted November 16, 2011 What do i do now? NC again xxx
ChelseaLS Posted November 16, 2011 Posted November 16, 2011 What do i do now? NC again xxx I really don't know. I have never done NC. If I were in your shoes however, I'd probably go back to NC.
Author smokey bear Posted November 16, 2011 Author Posted November 16, 2011 yes i still love him and yes i still want him back in my life, but im at the point where ill be ok either way he txt me again tonight he intitiated it, told me to get a head light so the police dont stop me, then told me about him achieving something important in his life, i congratulated him, then later just some random txting about small things xx any help would be appreciated
nu464 Posted November 17, 2011 Posted November 17, 2011 (edited) I still very much love my ex boyfriend. He broke up with me about a month ago. we went out for three months. sometimes, He acts like he likes me still. He stares sometimes, get's inquisitive of other guys, blushes when I talk to him sometimes and I just get this feeling like he still likes me, He's eyes is always on me , when we talk in groups or whatever, he'll always be looking at me. today, i got my cell taken up at school, and when i told him I was nervous about it, he offered to go with me to get it. we talked as we walked, and I was wondering...why don't you feel the chemistry? He asked around for a date to homecoming, and finally settled on this girl who he says He likes, but no one can believe he does. He said a couple weeks ago, He wanted to stab her! now he's not going to homecoming because she can't go. I don't know if that means he really does like her, but I doubt it. I thought homecoming would be THE NIGHT we would get back together. like, I had this feeling he was going to ask for me back that night. like, seriously. but now he's not going. I'm sick of this back and forth. I want to know....does he still like me? I know I do. please help. How do I tell him, if I should? Edited November 17, 2011 by nu464
robf1971 Posted November 17, 2011 Posted November 17, 2011 I still very much love my ex boyfriend. He broke up with me about a month ago. we went out for three months. sometimes, He acts like he likes me still. He stares sometimes, get's inquisitive of other guys, blushes when I talk to him sometimes and I just get this feeling like he still likes me, He's eyes is always on me , when we talk in groups or whatever, he'll always be looking at me. today, i got my cell taken up at school, and when i told him I was nervous about it, he offered to go with me to get it. we talked as we walked, and I was wondering...why don't you feel the chemistry? He asked around for a date to homecoming, and finally settled on this girl who he says He likes, but no one can believe he does. He said a couple weeks ago, He wanted to stab her! now he's not going to homecoming because she can't go. I don't know if that means he really does like her, but I doubt it. I thought homecoming would be THE NIGHT we would get back together. like, I had this feeling he was going to ask for me back that night. like, seriously. but now he's not going. I'm sick of this back and forth. I want to know....does he still like me? I know I do. please help. How do I tell him, if I should? He's keeping you on the backburner in case his new found single fun gets boring, or any new relationship fails and quite honestly you are ALLOWING this by letting him contact you. If someone really wants back they will walk over hot coals to be with you. Accept it's over, go NC..Remove yourself as a backup option!!
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